Weird Sexual feelings.

[Drewboy]

For the past few weeks I have been having some weird feelings. I've always been attracted to girls, and had many crushes and one girlfriend last year, who I really loved but it didn't go well. :/ For the past few weeks now, I have been feeling kind of weird though. I kind of like this girl in my class, and I wish we could go out, but I don't know if she is my type. However, I have been really wanting to like do sexual stuff with my guy friends. Like handjobs or blowjobs, nothing else really. Yet I don't want any kind of long term relationship with a boy, were as I can imagine being with a girl. I've always been jealous when girls talk about how hot another guy is, but right now I feel like I am even more jealous when my friends that are girls talk about guys then when my crush does, and I never thought that I was attracted to those friends in that way. Maybe that's because I haven't heard her actually talk about another guy, I've only seen in on the web, and it made me only a little jealous. And I keep feeling like I want a hand job from a guy friend. Don't get me wrong, I wouldn't pass up having sex with a girl, but lately I have been thinking about sexual stuff with guys more than girls. It's almost like I'm sexually attracted to guys more but physically and emotionally attracted to girls if that makes any sense. I keep thinking maybe I'm gay, but then I think wait no maybe I'm straight, or wait no maybe I'm bi. I can only picture a long term relationship with a girl, but I want to experiment with a guy friend. What does this mean? Am I bi? Am i curious? Is it just hormones? Is anyone else feeling like this sometimes? Sorry that this was so long... I really appreciate the help though :)

[ksdnfkfr]

Seen this a zillion times. Typical hormones/curiosity/confusion of puberty - nothing to worry about - you're normal.

[AlexOnToast]

Run of the mill. Welcome to being a boy/puberty :)

[itsthat0n3kid]

literally exactly like a lot of guys our ages. around this time guys hormones are off the charts, youre completely normal. If you feel you want to experiment i am sure that there is someone who would try it with you. Dont worry about it so much. just enjoy being a teenager.

[Drewboy]

Run of the mill. Welcome to being a boy/puberty :)

thanks buddy :) your reassurence is very kind

[Drewboy]

Seen this a zillion times. Typical hormones/curiosity/confusion of puberty - nothing to worry about - you're normal.

thanks dude. but your profile picture is... um... interesting. :confused:

literally exactly like a lot of guys our ages. around this time guys hormones are off the charts, youre completely normal. If you feel you want to experiment i am sure that there is someone who would try it with you. Dont worry about it so much. just enjoy being a teenager.

thanks dude, so will these fickle feelings go away eventually?

[itsthat0n3kid]

thanks dude, so will these fickle feelings go away eventually?

maybe, maybe not. You'll be fine man, dont worry about it. Just go with the flow. message me if you have more questions or wanna talk

[kanine]

You see everyone who posted before me? Yeah, they're exactly right. And if you don't grow out of it, all that really makes you is a bisexual heteroromantic- but that can seem a litle confusing xD. Don't worry, your hormones just REALLY want some release, you're cool :)

[ColinB]

You see everyone who posted before me? Yeah, they're exactly right. And if you don't grow out of it, all that really makes you is a bisexual heteroromantic- but that can seem a litle confusing xD. Don't worry, your hormones just REALLY want some release, you're cool :)

Yep.....welcome to hormoneville.....population a whole lot lol

[Dwemer]

Its normal. Try to see where it goes.

[GoWA_Vet]

youre normal

[chrisjenkins]

Just a normal part of puberty.

[LunarScorpio]

Seen this a zillion times. Typical hormones/curiosity/confusion of puberty - nothing to worry about - you're normal.

I could quote almost anyone, or just tell you just the same again

Kashmir is right, so is almost everyone else, natural, normal and called puberty

[Allissonasc]

I think it's normal, because I've have lots of feelings like that.

[Fireangel]

For the past few weeks I have been having some weird feelings. I've always been attracted to girls, and had many crushes and one girlfriend last year, who I really loved but it didn't go well. :/ For the past few weeks now, I have been feeling kind of weird though. I kind of like this girl in my class, and I wish we could go out, but I don't know if she is my type. However, I have been really wanting to like do sexual stuff with my guy friends. Like handjobs or blowjobs, nothing else really. Yet I don't want any kind of long term relationship with a boy, were as I can imagine being with a girl. I've always been jealous when girls talk about how hot another guy is, but right now I feel like I am even more jealous when my friends that are girls talk about guys then when my crush does, and I never thought that I was attracted to those friends in that way. Maybe that's because I haven't heard her actually talk about another guy, I've only seen in on the web, and it made me only a little jealous. And I keep feeling like I want a hand job from a guy friend. Don't get me wrong, I wouldn't pass up having sex with a girl, but lately I have been thinking about sexual stuff with guys more than girls. It's almost like I'm sexually attracted to guys more but physically and emotionally attracted to girls if that makes any sense. I keep thinking maybe I'm gay, but then I think wait no maybe I'm straight, or wait no maybe I'm bi. I can only picture a long term relationship with a girl, but I want to experiment with a guy friend. What does this mean? Am I bi? Am i curious? Is it just hormones? Is anyone else feeling like this sometimes? Sorry that this was so long... I really appreciate the help though :)

Don't worry, It's pretty normal and common, a lot of kids feel the same, most of the guys experimenting with their male friends.

[Sean Silver]

Whats your age? Puberty can be confusing for anyone, boy, girl, straight, gay, etc. I want you to recognize that discovering your sexuality can be a scary thing, but it's not a bad thing. If youre curious about something and have an opportunity to experiment, do it! Please DONT worry about labels, and trying to figure out if youre strictly gay/bi/straight. The truth is, no one is 100% anything.