Uh..

[Rallo]

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[Miserabilia]

I'd think it's suspicious too, just ask her the truth I guess /:

[Plasma]

You have every reason to be jealous and paranoid about it. She doesn't sound very trustworthy to me. Also, the fact that she got mad about you asking screams that she is keeping something from you. I'd say give her an ultimatum. Tell you everything (if you believe she hasn't) or leave. From what I've read, you deserve better than someone doing that to you. Good luck :)

[Rallo]

I'd think it's suspicious too, just ask her the truth I guess /:
I tried to ask now, she claims all the stuff she has told me now is the truth

You have every reason to be jealous and paranoid about it. She doesn't sound very trustworthy to me. Also, the fact that she got mad about you asking screams that she is keeping something from you. I'd say give her an ultimatum. Tell you everything (if you believe she hasn't) or leave. From what I've read, you deserve better than someone doing that to you. Good luck :)
I'm not sure though, I'm quite a paranoid person so it may just be me overthinking it and that may already be it, so an ultimatum may not be the best idea. She just told me a few minutes ago all she told me earlier is the truth now, still quite hard to believe though.

[Plasma]

I tried to ask now, she claims all the stuff she has told me now is the truth


I'm not sure though, I'm quite a paranoid person so it may just be me overthinking it and that may already be it, so an ultimatum may not be the best idea. She just told me a few minutes ago all she told me earlier is the truth now, still quite hard to believe though.

If you aren't happy, and you can't trust her, whether or not she is lying, then you can't keep feeling like shit about it. You either need to get over it and hope she told you everything, or end it. Relationships are about mutual happiness. What's the point in putting time and effort into it if all it brings you is sadness?

[Seemyheart]

1) she lied to your face multiple times
2) she chose to talk to him for those 20-30 minutes over you...
3) she still talked to him after he did that

Correct? Taking into account of all 3 of those things, I'd say you definitely have the right to be suspicious and paranoid. What's stopping her from lying to you again??
She really had no excuse to get annoyed with you. She's in the wrong, and she was being over defensive (sounds like it to me) so maybe she is hiding something from you

[Cygnus]

I'd say give her an ultimatum, either she blocks contact with him or it's over, let's see who she prefers.

[death-metal]

I agree with all the users who replied above me. You have every right to be jealous and suspicious. And I'm gonna tell the same thing. Give her an ultimatum, either she tells you the truth face-to-face or it's over.
It's upto you mate... Good luck

[Rallo]

I'd say give her an ultimatum, either she blocks contact with him or it's over, let's see who she prefers.

I ended up doing that, she blocked him on Skype and Snapchat (ended up showing me she had), which were the 2 main things i wanted her to on. She still has him on Twitter and Facebook though, hinted she delete him on there though she quite bluntly ignored the hint. Decided it's probably best to not overly worry about that for now though as he doesn't even use twitter (extremely rarely) and I currently have access to her Facebook anyway, so no point worrying overly about that. :yes:

[death-metal]

I ended up doing that, she blocked him on Skype and Snapchat (ended up showing me she had), which were the 2 main things i wanted her to on. She still has him on Twitter and Facebook though, hinted she delete him on there though she quite bluntly ignored the hint. Decided it's probably best to not overly worry about that for now though as he doesn't even use twitter (extremely rarely) and I currently have access to her Facebook anyway, so no point worrying overly about that. :yes:

Well, that's good! Cheers mate!

[goundy]

Don't chase, replace

[radsniper]

if it becomes a problem again talk to him and if that ain't working dump her