Girls only: Your first orgasm

[scott2002]

How old were you, and what were you doing or what was going on when you had your very first orgasm? And, how possible is it that a girl who is 15 has not yet ever had an orgasm?

[ShilaFit]

Yes it's possibile...

[stoneflowe96]

I was 12 and it happened when masturbating. It is possible. Maybe she does not masturbate. She maybe does not get an orgasm by intercours, this is not totaly uncommen because penetration alone does not mean automaticly that a girl get's the arousal for an orgasm. The most an commen way for arousal of a girl is by stimultating the clitoris because of the many nerve endings there. If she is your gf maybe you both should talk gentle about the things she likes.

[becca07]

I was 12ish maybe. Started getting the 'weird' and tingly feelings at the time.

I asked my best friend at the time if she ever got them.

All she said was that when that is happening it means "thats your Genie in your lamp" and that I needed "Aladdin time" ( we were young....i know..embarrassing lol) as she called it. I was confused but then caught on as she just sorted embarrassingly said that all you do is "rub your lamp" for a while and i'll feel better. But she also said that for the first few times I should make sure no1 is home. I asked her why and all she said was, "oh, you'll know why" and laughed.

[BlackParadePixie]

It's totally possible for a girl who is 15 to have never had an orgasm. Some women don't learn how to have them until they are much older than that....for various reasons.

[shy_indian_chick]

it's definitely very possible for a 15 year old to have never had an orgasm. I have even heard of women in their 20s having never had an orgasm. Women are not built like men where it just starts to happen more or less automatically by a certain age, it requires active effort. Some people are just not very sexual, or are discouraged from having sexual thoughts, and this can cause anxiety about anything related to sex/masturbation. It's more of a psychological issue than a physical one most likely.

personally, my first orgasm was when I was 13.

[ChloeF]

l was about 9, l didn't know what it was other than it was the most amazing feeling l'd ever had.
Becca07's description is one of the coolest l've ever heard and Fiona is right, for whatever reason some girls don't orgasm till they're older than 15.

[scott2002]

Thanks, everyone. Here is why I asked this. My gf and I are doing more when making out, and just a week ago she let me see and touch her for the first time down between her legs. A couple of days ago I was touching and rubbing here (very wet down there), and all of a sudden she started breathing really hard and shaking and then she told me to stop because "something happened" and she all of a sudden felt really sensitive where I was touching her. She told me she NEVER had that happen before.
So I think she had an orgasm, and it sounds like she never had one before. I just thought all girls just knew how to masturbate just like us boys all figured it out or shared it with each other.

[Fiona2]

I was 13 and it happened while masturbating. Does your gf masturbate? If she does, it would seem unusual that she has not had an orgasm but everyone is different.

[kimmykim]

ya its possible, not all girls can orgasm easily.

11 or 12 for me

[KateMarshal]

I was 14 yo when it was happend to me. I was fingering yoursel and sudenly I had my first orgasm. I started masturbating when I was 13 yo.

[LITTLEANGEL19]

It's veery possible for ANY Girl/Woman to NEVER have had an orgasm regardless of age, if you don't take an action to have an orgasm then you will not have one.
I had my first orgasm between 10 - 11 by masturbating.

[becca07]

l was about 9, l didn't know what it was other than it was the most amazing feeling l'd ever had.
Becca07's description is one of the coolest l've ever heard and Fiona is right, for whatever reason some girls don't orgasm till they're older than 15.

haha, yeah I've always thought my friends description was quite accurate and a cool way to put it.

[ClaraPott]

I was 12 yo. I didnt know what it was.

[Atlantis]

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