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Tomobon115
May 7th, 2017, 03:26 PM
I've got this weird problem, I am 100% straight I've never had thoughts of anything but girls, but say I see a picture of a really hot girl near nude or naked I can't get a boner? Is it to do with me not being through puberty???

ska8er
May 7th, 2017, 05:30 PM
I don't think puberty has anything to
do bout it. Maybe the pics of girls u are
looking at just doesn't do it for u. If u r
worrying bout it-that alone will cause u
not to get hard. How r u around girls that
u c in school? That should b an idea if u
have a prob or not.

SamMystic
May 7th, 2017, 05:31 PM
I've got this weird problem, I am 100% straight I've never had thoughts of anything but girls, but say I see a picture of a really hot girl near nude or naked I can't get a boner? Is it to do with me not being through puberty???

Do vids work?

pjones
May 7th, 2017, 05:53 PM
I don't think puberty has anything to
do bout it. Maybe the pics of girls u are
looking at just doesn't do it for u. If u r
worrying bout it-that alone will cause u
not to get hard. How r u around girls that
u c in school? That should b an idea if u
have a prob or not.

good points. OP don't worry too much about it, you'll probably find girls that get you aroused soon.

Harrier
May 7th, 2017, 05:58 PM
Need more info. How old are you? Have you ever gotten a boner before? If so, what gave it to you? Do you masturbate? If so to what? Videos, thoughts, what ?

kev1998
May 7th, 2017, 06:25 PM
Maybe you're trying too hard or putting too much pressure on yourself to get a boner. I have been nervous in a real situation and not been able to keep a boner. It happens to all of us. Relax and let boners happen when they do. You look at the right pic and it will happen.

bpk1234
May 7th, 2017, 09:40 PM
Seeing from one of your posts that your only 15 bud, don't be so quick to label yourself. Only you know what your sexuality is.

I mean I'm gay and I obviously I never got hard over girls. I just remember looking at guys from age 12 or 13 on. I just came out when I was 18.

Otherwise it may just be a medical issue that you should consider speaking to a doctor with.

Matryoshkasystem
May 7th, 2017, 10:10 PM
Could be your not completely straight, and no I don't mean your bi. Could be that you are a demi-someone who is only sexually aroused when they have a deep emotional connection to them-. Of course this can't be determined until after you've entered a relationship.

pconnor
May 7th, 2017, 10:19 PM
Maybe you are bi and don't know it.

INACTIVEchaosphere
May 8th, 2017, 12:31 AM
Yeah, it could be a lack of maturation, but I suspect it's something else. Maybe the girl actually has to be doing something sexual to actually elicit a response from your body. For instance, show me a girl nude on a beach, and I won't really care after a while, because she's doing what she would otherwise be doing, just in a more natural state. However, if the girl's showing off or masturbating or something, it arouses me, because it has a different vibe. The atmosphere surrounding platonic and erotic nudism is completely different for me.

UndieBoy
May 8th, 2017, 02:54 AM
Maybe you're trying too hard or putting too much pressure on yourself to get a boner. I have been nervous in a real situation and not been able to keep a boner. It happens to all of us. Relax and let boners happen when they do. You look at the right pic and it will happen.

U right :)