Never had a Wet Dream: weird???

[SamMystic]

So I'm 16 now, but never had a wet dream.. Is that weird? I'd rather not have a wet dream though, but still..

:confused:

[Vicboy2707]

I have only ever had one and I'm 16 it's not wired at all some boys get them some don't just the way it is

[James2003]

It's not that unusual not to have had one. Some guys get them, some don't. Most boys will get them if they don't masturbate regularly - maybe you're just wanking too much to have one ;-)

[ShineintheDark]

I don;t think I've ever had one but it's usually linked to a high sex drive or an excess of cum that your body needs to get rid of. If you jack often, your body doesn't usually need to

[Zachary G]

Im 16 and ive never had one either

[zzzzzzzzzz]

Same here. Never had one. I think you either do or you don't

[TWDjacob]

Nope it's not weird at all because they don't happen to everyone. I'm 16 too and have never had one

[teenboyNathan]

I'm 15 and I've never had one. It's not weird because some get them and some don't

[Coolteen10]

Not unusual different for everyone.

[Dominic Reyes]

Never either

[INACTIVEchaosphere]

I'm not really an avid masturbator, but I've never had a wet dream either and I'm 17.

[Hermes]

No, it is not weird at all. I have never had one either and there are plenty of others here for which it is the same.

It used to be thought they occurred due to cum building up and not being released any other way. While it is true that guys who don't masturbate much seem more likely to have them it is certainly not that simple as some guys have had one the same night as having masturbated, so it is not as if a huge load will have built up in just a few hours, and others have avoided masturbating for weeks and still not had one.

I think the only weird thing is that some sex-ed programmes by mentioning wet dreams, and trying to avoid masturbation, can leave you with the impression that a wet dream is some kind of development milestone. Really, the development milestone is becoming able to ejaculate and whether than happens by masturbating or in a wet dream doesn't really matter.

So, if you've not been having them and don't want one then just carry on as your are.

[Alan T]

Wet dreams rock.

[scott2002]

I've only had two in my life, and one was a true wet DREAM. I was dreaming I was with this girl and we got carried away and we started having sex in the same room while her parents were watching TV. And then in my dream I felt I was about to cum...AND AT THAT MOMENT I WOKE UP. And I WAS cumming!!! It was so strange cuz I wasn't sure if it was really happening or if I was dreaming it still. But then I woke up enough to realize I was wet and it really did happen.

My other wet dream, I just woke up soaked. No recall of any dream with it.

[Alex_Swim]

15, Never had one either. Guess Never built up enough for it to happen.

[iannn]

Had many sexual dreams but never orgasmed. I guess it's because i started jackin' off regulary as soon as i startet to produce sperm so there was never any "overflow" of semen that needed to be released at night

[logan2002]

Never had one

[Alan T]

Frequency of wet dreams seems to vary a lot between guys and that all seems normal. I have them fairly regularly, but maybe my body just produces a lot of semen.

[SamMystic]

I do masturbate kinda a lot, so maybe that has something to do with it?

[SethfromMI]

I do masturbate kinda a lot, so maybe that has something to do with it?

I think it most certainly plays a factor. I think wet dreams sometimes can be a way for the body to release the buildup when you don't masturbate. I don't get them very often, but I have sex/masturbate pretty regularly. some guys still get them even when they do, some guys don't get them often even when they don't.

if you really want to experience one, try not masturbating. I am sure by a week or so you will end up having one. as fun as those dreams can be, you might realize it is more fun just enjoying your usually activities.

[JakeTaylor]

I do masturbate kinda a lot, so maybe that has something to do with it?

Definitely. Wet dreams are just a way for the body to get rid of the semen it produces if there's no other way. Since you do masturbate a lot, it doesn't really need to do that.

[Cassius16]

Everyone is different so it's not weird. I get them very often even though I masturbate (and ejaculate)

[Brightwolf]

Some of my friends haven't ever had one either. It's normal and not all guys get them. Masturbating a lot makes you not have as well.

[Yonah]

I think most of the boys get wet dreams before they discover masturbation to get the juices out, or when they later don't masturbate for a while.
I knew about masturbation from my older brother, since I watched him a few times when we shared a room and I pretended to sleep under my blanket. Once he caught me watching him, but didn't make a fuzz of it and just said: you'll have to wait to be able to do this until you have pubes like me. I just took this advice and didn't try anything, but one day when I discovered from now to then that some 5 hairs were growing around my dick, I immediately started to stroke it like I saw it from my brother. After about 10 minutes I sort of fainted and when I opened my eyes I was covered with a bucket load of jizz.
Until then I've never noticed this stuff coming from my body, and from that moment there was not one day without masturbating at least 4 times per day. So my body probably just never had any need to let juices flow out without me provoking it.

[Beltane1001]

I haven't had one since I started masturbating.

It's totally normal.

[Enfield]

Oh my God! I'm fifteen and I'm the same though I would like to have one. They seem hot... Glad to see there are others like me.

[Perc.man_1]

I'm 14 and I haven't

[Deku]

I used to get them all the time when I was 12/13 years old, and that was before I started masturbating. I believe you get wet dreams if you don't masturbate in a while, and since I masturbate almost every day, I don't get them anymore. I can say that for me, wet dreams feel amazing, as you'll be semi-conscious in a dream when it happens. It'll just happen all of sudden and you'll be really happy in your sleep. :)

If you honestly want to see what it's like to have a wet dream, I'd hold off on masturbating for as long as you can until it happens. But, you're really not missing anything.

[kanefromoz]

So I'm 16 now, but never had a wet dream.. Is that weird? I'd rather not have a wet dream though, but still..

:confused:

Ive never had 1 either bro. Ive read that if you jerk off alot ( or even just regular amounts) you dont. I dont know if thats true but Ive been jerking off since I was 7 and Ive never even come close to having 1 even when I have sexy as fuck dreams....

[Alan T]

I had a wet dream this morning.

[spartucus48]

I get morning wood and one night I was beating off while dreaming!

[snoopy]

I am 16 and I have never had one

[Ksmiffy9]

I jerk off several times a day and I've never had one

[kyle2003]

I've never had one, but I usually masturbate at least twice a day.