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Dracarys
February 26th, 2014, 02:44 PM
Well I'm a 15 year old guy turning-16
I'm indian and I keep worrying about my penis size.
Lately I came across a genre of porn called cuckold,where the female partner mocks the male partner on his short penis and generally has sex with someone else in front of them and makes the guy with the small penis only clean up her semen vagina.Now idk if all this actually happns but I'm 15 and I have a 5.2 inch dick and ik that indians aren't that packed but recently I fingered and
Performed oral sex on 2 women and both said I was amazing with my tongue.What worries me is that:What if women just want to use me for oral sex and don't get pleasured when I actually have sex with them.
Is this anything to worry about?
I would like to hear it from a woman's point of view too.
P.S:I'm kinda new here posted this in the boys only section too.I could use the views of both genders
elmoc
February 26th, 2014, 03:54 PM
The simple answer: You are within "normal" length for an adult male, regardless of ethnic origin.
The medical nerd answer: The vaginal tissue has an amazing ability to stretch, shrink, & swell substantially, so that almost any size penis can be accommodated for intercourse. From the scientific point of view, the function of the vagina is to receive the penis; stimulate the male to ejaculation, & then retain & direct the semen toward the cervix, then to the uterus, & then to the fallopian tubes, where fertilization of the egg occurs, resulting in an embryo & eventually a viable infant. Reproduction.
The vagina can stretch, with appropriate foreplay, to accept the rare 8" penis, or it can stretch a bit less (the average vagina is only about 3-4" deep when not sexually stimulated) to direct the semen from your 5.2" penis toward the cervix-uterus, etc.
The fact that you seem quite accomplished with your oral & digital stimulation makes you a more sexually attractive (perspective) mate. Why? If a female can choose between a guy that brings her exceptional sexual stimulation, her vulva, vagina, labia will be swollen & ready for intercourse. When her tissues swell, her nerve endings become more sensitive, which results in more pleasure.
Bottom Line: Yes, there are some females that prefer a man with a larger penis, just as you may prefer a female with large or small breasts. It is simply a matter of personal preference. If you know how to sexually stimulate her orally to the point that her body begins experiencing the waves of multiple orgasms (of which females are capable), when the time is right to insert your penis, she will be a VERY happy & satisfied sexual partner. Chances are good that she will want to enjoy that experience with you more frequently than the guy with the 8" penis that desires simply satisfies himself.
I am NOT saying that guys with 8" penises cannot learn oral technique & become exceptional lovers, but many studies of female sexuality indicate that YOU, with your oral skills, should have no problem with finding compatible lovers.
Speaking as a 15 year old guy- I would love to know your technique, but then we would be booted from the forum!
Typo error: I'm 18 & a poor typist. I REALLY wish I knew your techniques asa 15 yr old!
Ben101
February 26th, 2014, 03:56 PM
You are 15, not 21, The penis doesnt stop growing until your 19-21 regardless what tanner stage your in.
myfoodisnotshared
February 26th, 2014, 04:18 PM
The simple answer: You are within "normal" length for an adult male, regardless of ethnic origin.
The medical nerd answer: The vaginal tissue has an amazing ability to stretch, shrink, & swell substantially, so that almost any size penis can be accommodated for intercourse. From the scientific point of view, the function of the vagina is to receive the penis; stimulate the male to ejaculation, & then retain & direct the semen toward the cervix, then to the uterus, & then to the fallopian tubes, where fertilization of the egg occurs, resulting in an embryo & eventually a viable infant. Reproduction.
The vagina can stretch, with appropriate foreplay, to accept the rare 8" penis, or it can stretch a bit less (the average vagina is only about 3-4" deep when not sexually stimulated) to direct the semen from your 5.2" penis toward the cervix-uterus, etc.
The fact that you seem quite accomplished with your oral & digital stimulation makes you a more sexually attractive (perspective) mate. Why? If a female can choose between a guy that brings her exceptional sexual stimulation, her vulva, vagina, labia will be swollen & ready for intercourse. When her tissues swell, her nerve endings become more sensitive, which results in more pleasure.
Bottom Line: Yes, there are some females that prefer a man with a larger penis, just as you may prefer a female with large or small breasts. It is simply a matter of personal preference. If you know how to sexually stimulate her orally to the point that her body begins experiencing the waves of multiple orgasms (of which females are capable), when the time is right to insert your penis, she will be a VERY happy & satisfied sexual partner. Chances are good that she will want to enjoy that experience with you more frequently than the guy with the 8" penis that desires simply satisfies himself.
I am NOT saying that guys with 8" penises cannot learn oral technique & become exceptional lovers, but many studies of female sexuality indicate that YOU, with your oral skills, should have no problem with finding compatible lovers.
Speaking as a 15 year old guy- I would love to know your technique, but then we would be booted from the forum!
I just wanted to quote this as the best and funniest answer I've read in a long time - not to mention the best backed up:-)
To Dracarys - No. Your chances of meeting anyone who wants to have 'cuckold' sex with you is close to zero, and if you do, run in the other direction very quickly and consider phoning a mental institution. I mean, really? Insulting a guy and then having them lick up another guy's junk? I'm not even going to comment on that.
But for the penis thing... 70% of women need something other than 'just sex' to get off. Which means that being good at fingering, oral and everything in between is a lot more important than just being big, which can actually be painful. Whilst I totally agree with elmoc's science and it's obviously really well researched, girls need time to expand, which means if a 7" guy can't do anything but straight sex... it's not going to be fun.
Yes, girls are going to want you to do oral with them, sometimes without actual sex. But you probably want girls to blow you off sometimes too, without doing any actual work:-)
Dracarys
February 27th, 2014, 03:50 AM
well im kinda worried about the fact that:what if it may not be as big as she expected and she doesnt blow me off /: I'll just end up satisfying her and she'll just chuck me like im a used tissue or something.
ksdnfkfr
February 27th, 2014, 04:37 AM
but I'm 15 and I have a 5.2 inch dick
Normal, average. Find something else to be concerned about. And don't base an actual sex life on porn.
AlexOnToast
February 27th, 2014, 05:02 AM
Porn is pretty much the worst thing to base real sexual learning on.
And as to your size, you are actually fine for your age, larger than many your age and even older. No need to be worrying.
John566
February 27th, 2014, 07:26 AM
You're fine lol
chrisjenkins
February 27th, 2014, 08:23 AM
You're fine.
Joanna.SB
February 27th, 2014, 12:36 PM
You are a perfectly normal size! The fact that you have awesome finger and tongue abilities is a plus! I actually have to say that i don't really like oral sex or at least the guys I've been with haven't been very good. I still think that blow-jobs are as satisfying for girls as they are to boys.
Good luck!
Dracarys
February 27th, 2014, 03:03 PM
You are a perfectly normal size! The fact that you have awesome finger and tongue abilities is a plus! I actually have to say that i don't really like oral sex or at least the guys I've been with haven't been very good. I still think that blow-jobs are as satisfying for girls as they are to boys.
Good luck!
Well that makes me feel better.Just that sometimes my friends keep talking about their dicks being about 6 or 6.5" but they're all a year older
Tiffany-J
February 27th, 2014, 04:53 PM
Just wanted to say own us size really doesn't matter that much as long as it isn't a tiny dick but most girls I know actually prefer average size dicks xx
P.s. I'm a girl so I know what I'm talking about ;)
sweet_girl24au
February 27th, 2014, 09:27 PM
Dont worry too much. Most girls would not care, it really is how you use it. Some girls would find an overly large penis uncomfortable, I know im happy with average size. And most guys say theyre alot bigger than they are. (no wonder)
Dracarys
February 28th, 2014, 04:25 PM
So is mine average then?
Will it grow bigger in a couple of years?
backjruton
February 28th, 2014, 05:26 PM
Now idk if all this actually happens but I'm 15 and I have a 5.2 inch dick
Honestly you shouldn't be worried about this. I don't care that mine switches between 4" to 6", which I'm guessing is below average? I'm just happy I was born a boy and I have one
Danagal
February 28th, 2014, 06:07 PM
I promise you are worrying to much.
Lisa R
February 28th, 2014, 07:59 PM
No worries most girls are interested in you than your penis.
elmoc
July 21st, 2017, 11:17 AM
Summary of my earlier, long post: if you get her adequately stimulated, her tissues will swell, & whatever your penis size, she will feel feel full. Foreplay is the key. Your penis is perfectly normal. Please don't be intimidated by the guys that post a 7-8 inch penis. My dad is a urologist & he has seen literally thousands of penises. Many concern erectile dysfunction from ages 15-92. He does penile implants. According to him, 90% of the mature penises he sees erect are between 5-6" long, with most less than 5.5". Yes, he also see guys with micro penis, & 3.5-4" long. He has seen less that 20 8 inchers, & about 5% that are 7". It is all about how/where you measure it. He cited a a new study that had clinicians measure 2000 erections of men of all races. They measured from the pubic bone to the tip of the glans. 85% were between 5.08 & 5.56" long.
INACTIVEchaosphere
July 25th, 2017, 01:15 AM
The simple answer: You are within "normal" length for an adult male, regardless of ethnic origin.
The medical nerd answer: The vaginal tissue has an amazing ability to stretch, shrink, & swell substantially, so that almost any size penis can be accommodated for intercourse. From the scientific point of view, the function of the vagina is to receive the penis; stimulate the male to ejaculation, & then retain & direct the semen toward the cervix, then to the uterus, & then to the fallopian tubes, where fertilization of the egg occurs, resulting in an embryo & eventually a viable infant. Reproduction.
The vagina can stretch, with appropriate foreplay, to accept the rare 8" penis, or it can stretch a bit less (the average vagina is only about 3-4" deep when not sexually stimulated) to direct the semen from your 5.2" penis toward the cervix-uterus, etc.
The fact that you seem quite accomplished with your oral & digital stimulation makes you a more sexually attractive (perspective) mate. Why? If a female can choose between a guy that brings her exceptional sexual stimulation, her vulva, vagina, labia will be swollen & ready for intercourse. When her tissues swell, her nerve endings become more sensitive, which results in more pleasure.
Bottom Line: Yes, there are some females that prefer a man with a larger penis, just as you may prefer a female with large or small breasts. It is simply a matter of personal preference. If you know how to sexually stimulate her orally to the point that her body begins experiencing the waves of multiple orgasms (of which females are capable), when the time is right to insert your penis, she will be a VERY happy & satisfied sexual partner. Chances are good that she will want to enjoy that experience with you more frequently than the guy with the 8" penis that desires simply satisfies himself.
I am NOT saying that guys with 8" penises cannot learn oral technique & become exceptional lovers, but many studies of female sexuality indicate that YOU, with your oral skills, should have no problem with finding compatible lovers.
Speaking as a 15 year old guy- I would love to know your technique, but then we would be booted from the forum!
This is pretty much the single best biological explanation of the mechanics of this that I have ever seen. I usually tout the benefits of your confidence having more significance than your physicality, but this adds the other side of it, the purely physical side. Hats off to you.
Atlantis
July 25th, 2017, 07:19 PM
Summary of my earlier, long post: if you get her adequately stimulated, her tissues will swell, & whatever your penis size, she will feel feel full. Foreplay is the key. Your penis is perfectly normal. Please don't be intimidated by the guys that post a 7-8 inch penis. My dad is a urologist & he has seen literally thousands of penises. Many concern erectile dysfunction from ages 15-92. He does penile implants. According to him, 90% of the mature penises he sees erect are between 5-6" long, with most less than 5.5". Yes, he also see guys with micro penis, & 3.5-4" long. He has seen less that 20 8 inchers, & about 5% that are 7". It is all about how/where you measure it. He cited a a new study that had clinicians measure 2000 erections of men of all races. They measured from the pubic bone to the tip of the glans. 85% were between 5.08 & 5.56" long.
Please don't bump old threads with two or more months inactivity. :locked:
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