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Rhys2001
April 28th, 2017, 11:38 AM
So basically I'm going to this camp in the summer and it looks like there'll be communal showers... I was wondering how can I just get used to them, I'm pretty straight yet it's Sod's law I'll get a boner. And I just don't want that to happen lol. Any advice to prevent this?

Salad_Baby
April 28th, 2017, 12:06 PM
Perhaps just look straight ahead, don't look down or anything. Or try to close your eyes throughout xD

Tpyro
April 28th, 2017, 12:47 PM
Getting use to them is more not caring what others think and confident with yourself(remember everyone's small or big but not size till hard). I'd say go to the pool or gym/school and shower in the open there. Don't wash/play with yourself as much as you do at home less touch less stimulation less chance of boner. Your are not the only boy thinking about it and won't be the only boy that gets a semi boner or boner others will too. just don't be one that makes fun about others cause it will happen to you.

ItsFootballnotSoccer
April 28th, 2017, 01:13 PM
I can avoid a boner just by thinking of something else, so maybe focus on other things

jamie_n5
April 28th, 2017, 02:13 PM
Just don't worry about it and just think of some thought and concentrate on showering. If it happens it happens. Nothing to be ashamed of.

jerrion
April 28th, 2017, 05:01 PM
So basically I'm going to this camp in the summer and it looks like there'll be communal showers... I was wondering how can I just get used to them, I'm pretty straight yet it's Sod's law I'll get a boner. And I just don't want that to happen lol. Any advice to prevent this?

you cant avoid it unfortunately so just mind your own business , i bet you wont be the only boy there with a poking member

Kyle37
April 28th, 2017, 06:46 PM
It happens until you get used to it. So experience it in other communal showers first. The key is to be thinking about other things. Try to focus your energy on preventing a boner is going to cause you to get a boner.

rioo
April 28th, 2017, 07:55 PM
my opinion erection is pretty normal for guys, just close ur eyes and dont look at others. But talking with others while showering is also good if u want to breaking the ice.

SethfromMI
April 28th, 2017, 07:59 PM
So basically I'm going to this camp in the summer and it looks like there'll be communal showers... I was wondering how can I just get used to them, I'm pretty straight yet it's Sod's law I'll get a boner. And I just don't want that to happen lol. Any advice to prevent this?

nothing to worry about dude. guys get erections in the shower sometimes even if they're perfectly straight. it happens. many of the guys there are going to be showering with other guys for the first time too. if you want to get used to it, go to a gym or something that has communal showers. but really, just go in there and do your thing. try to concentrate on yourself and getting clean up (that is what your there for). you are going to see other people and other people are going to see you. but yea man, this is nothing to worry about.

if anyone does give you crap about having a boner, turn it back around on them. make a joke or say why are you so concerned about my junk. like I said, many of them will have the same concerns you do. some will have already done this before. it really is going to be such a small thing and after the first time or two, your going to see it is no big deal at all.

steellord321
April 29th, 2017, 01:48 AM
Well i went to 2 camps one before and during puberty. The first was overcrowded so they had set times for each cabin to go as a group. Now we could've run for swim trunks and a couple guys did. But it was like a mile to the water change area. So it just depends. Now when i got to the shower area and saw how old and unprivate it was, i kinda wanted to run to get my trunks lol. But seriously after like 2 minutes of this you get used to it. It's def awkward at first though. You all saw each other naked and how taboo that is and you're trapped in a cabin together still. But agian you get used to it

2nd camp we had a lot more freedom to shower whenever. It was still very old and communal but if thats your setup, you can sneak out at like 3 am and shower alone if u really want

mookie
April 29th, 2017, 01:00 PM
Just face the wall and wash quick, don't look around. It's no big deal really to shower with other people

boyfromthesouth
April 29th, 2017, 01:38 PM
nothing you can really do. just think of something that doesnt turn u on

pconnor
April 29th, 2017, 08:39 PM
You will get used to showering naked with all the other boys.We do every day in school gym class. Boners happen sometimes but nobody gets teased. We all got the same parts.

dude08
April 29th, 2017, 10:24 PM
Jerk off before and take cold showers

INACTIVEchaosphere
April 29th, 2017, 11:50 PM
Just focus on doing your own thing, don't pay attention to anybody else. Everybody in the showers will have the same anatomy as you, and any interaction you have with them is the same as it would be if you were clothed. You can masturbate before, but it's better to just get used to communal nudity, so you can go to a gym and desensitize yourself to non-sexually naked people. Any locker room or shower will work.

ImAPerson
April 3rd, 2018, 11:50 AM
Yea it’s always communal at camps unfortunately ��

Jeff1857
April 5th, 2018, 03:21 PM
You will get use to it faster than you think. If you get semi don't worry about it. Most guys will ignore it. You prob will not.

Talking to a buddy helps while showering and it is distracting so you don't think about getting hard. Don't worry about it. Most guys are in the same boat as you.

Zachary G
April 5th, 2018, 03:34 PM
not much you can do about it, it happens. my suggestion is to not spend much time in there, just get in, get washed and get out.

toby69
April 5th, 2018, 03:38 PM
Go into one of the stalls and jack off right before the shower. Your dick is not apt to get hard again so quickly.

robin246
April 5th, 2018, 03:57 PM
So basically I'm going to this camp in the summer and it looks like there'll be communal showers... I was wondering how can I just get used to them, I'm pretty straight yet it's Sod's law I'll get a boner. And I just don't want that to happen lol. Any advice to prevent this?

just don't think about it, the more u do the more likely u would get a boner man

Inactive
April 5th, 2018, 09:30 PM
So basically I'm going to this camp in the summer and it looks like there'll be communal showers... I was wondering how can I just get used to them, I'm pretty straight yet it's Sod's law I'll get a boner. And I just don't want that to happen lol. Any advice to prevent this?

Maybe just think of it in a non sexual way or dont look down

ImAPerson
April 6th, 2018, 02:28 AM
Try and forget that you are in there with other ppl dude 👌

azurzg
April 6th, 2018, 03:35 AM
What ever happens, don't worry about it. Boners happen is showers all the time.

Franciscofixe
April 6th, 2018, 03:56 AM
Think in things that you will never get a boner to, and it will be okay

Franciscofixe
April 6th, 2018, 10:08 AM
Every one has boner. I also had a boner in commumal showers. Many boys out there will also have boner and other will be jerking off( at least I saw that a couple of times). If you get more comfortable go with a bathing suit

CoryW
April 6th, 2018, 10:16 AM
Other guy are gonna be as nervous as you. Some guys are going to have big dicks some are going to be real small but you will be fine.

Atlantis
April 8th, 2018, 05:07 PM
Yea it’s always communal at camps unfortunately ��

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