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KatieCO2003
April 24th, 2017, 11:53 PM
I haven't been able to find any recent threads with girls' comments on this, so please, responses from girls only.

When you give a guy a BJ, do you let him finish in your mouth or something else?

If he finishes in your mouth, then what? Swallow? Spit?

FYI: I've never had a boyfriend and have never given anyone oral. I'm just curious to know what everyone is doing so I have some idea of what to expect. Thank you.

Mollypop
April 25th, 2017, 12:05 AM
I let him finish and I swallow. But it's not like you have to do it if you don't want to.

amelia_
April 25th, 2017, 12:25 AM
I havent been with a boy either, so idk it might just be something you have to experience and see.

veroda
April 25th, 2017, 01:07 AM
I let him finish and I swallow. But it's not like you have to do it if you don't want to.

well... how does it taste??? girls I know either say its the worst possible taste ever or the exact opposite...

ChloeF
April 25th, 2017, 02:30 AM
I haven't been able to find any recent threads with girls' comments on this, so please, responses from girls only.

When you give a guy a BJ, do you let him finish in your mouth or something else?

If he finishes in your mouth, then what? Swallow? Spit?

FYI: I've never had a boyfriend and have never given anyone oral. I'm just curious to know what everyone is doing so I have some idea of what to expect. Thank you.
I swallow but it's entirely up to you, if you don't want him to cum in your mouth then tell him.
If you're ok with him cumming in your mouth, the same applies, whether you swallow it or spit it out is your choice.
Communication helps, ask him to let you know when he's about to cum so you're not totally unprepared for it.
As for what it tastes like, that's up to you as well. We're all different, you might find you don't mind it but if it grosses you out then that's fine too.

lenka11
April 25th, 2017, 06:26 AM
for me mouth and than spit on handkerchief :) i swallow only few times :)

Taryn98
April 25th, 2017, 07:28 AM
I prefer him to cum in my mouth and I swallow. I personally think it tastes good but know some girls disagree. If he really want to pull out and cum on my face or tits or something, I'll let him as long as we're in a place that I can clean up easily.

Klara Splichal
April 25th, 2017, 08:28 AM
He normaly cum in my mouth. I swallow.

Mollypop
April 25th, 2017, 09:19 AM
well... how does it taste??? girls I know either say its the worst possible taste ever or the exact opposite...

It tastes a little salty and very slightly sweet with some other flavors that I don't know how to describe. Smokers taste awful to me so I won't let them shoot in my mouth.

I think the more you do it the more you get used to the flavor and get to like it.

angelina
April 25th, 2017, 11:23 AM
for me mouth and than spit on handkerchief :) i swallow only few times :)
no such experience..but as you had , can you tell about its taste?

StacyD
April 25th, 2017, 02:35 PM
Tastes can vary. I guess it depends on their diet. Sweeter foods they say make it sweeter. I don't know for sure. But I do love the taste and I do let them finish in my mouth and I do swallow. Like with others though, unless they want to cum somewhere else on or in me, but I don't mind either way. That said, communication is important. And what to do is entirely up to you.

sara___
April 25th, 2017, 03:07 PM
I'd say that most of the time i let the guy finish in my mouth. I try to swallow every time but sometimes i just can't seem to get it all down and i have to spit it out. I don't mind the taste it's the consistency that i've had trouble with every once in awhile.

When you do give your 1st bj it might feel awkward at first but just do what comes natural and when the guy cums don't feel you HAVE TO swallow.

Jamy
April 25th, 2017, 03:10 PM
It depends on you if you want to swallow or to spit. It's important to tell it and it depends on my mood if I want to swallow or to spit. The taste can be very different and sometimes the taste isn't nice and then I spit. I always ask if he can warn me when he comes.

shy_indian_chick
April 25th, 2017, 03:52 PM
usually I let him finish in my mouth and swallow, though not all guys taste the same - it can range from somewhat sweet to quite unpleasant. If the guy I'm with prefers to finish elsewhere (face, boobs, butt) I'm usually ok w/ that.

ClaraPott
April 25th, 2017, 03:56 PM
I dont like when by bf finish in my mouth. He usually can cum on by boobs and face. If he cum in my mouth (not often but when he realy want he can do it) I never swallow.

anyacolo
April 25th, 2017, 05:08 PM
mmmmm yummy cum....swallow every time :)

bunnyhabit
April 25th, 2017, 05:28 PM
i always swallow guys cum too messy to spit out and is good for skin and theeth according to my doctor. i have been swallowing since i was twelve so taste not to bad usually.

DerpyGirl
April 25th, 2017, 06:00 PM
I have a follow up question. If your guy cums in your mouth, does he usually stay right in your mouth while they finish?

shy_indian_chick
April 25th, 2017, 06:06 PM
I have a follow up question. If your guy cums in your mouth, does he usually stay right in your mouth while they finish?

in my experience, yes. A lot of guys enjoy a few additional moments of suction after they finish, but right after that they get quite sensitive in that area.

SammiB
April 25th, 2017, 11:19 PM
Every guy is different but most times I find it easier to keep him in my mouth. Can choose what to do after

Mollypop
April 26th, 2017, 01:02 AM
I have a follow up question. If your guy cums in your mouth, does he usually stay right in your mouth while they finish?
Usually yeah. My bf likes when I suck hard while he cums. He says it makes it more intense.

RideOrDie
April 26th, 2017, 02:00 AM
I let him finish inside my mouth, and I swallow. It's weird at first. It's something you have to get used to. You don't have to do this though

iamsilkspectre
April 26th, 2017, 02:33 AM
I prefer him to cum in my mouth and I swallow. I personally think it tastes good but know some girls disagree. If he really want to pull out and cum on my face or tits or something, I'll let him as long as we're in a place that I can clean up easily.

Basically same here. Swallowing is both intimate and clean.

StacyD
April 26th, 2017, 06:35 AM
I have a follow up question. If your guy cums in your mouth, does he usually stay right in your mouth while they finish?

Usually, yes. Not only do I usually want to keep sucking and licking, but guys usually enjoy that too and it just seems to make it better for both the guy and the girl. Of course, if you're going to be one that spits, then you'll probably want to end it and get to something where you can spit.

Taryn98
April 26th, 2017, 07:19 AM
I have a follow up question. If your guy cums in your mouth, does he usually stay right in your mouth while they finish?

It depends on what they like. Sometimes I keep them in my mouth as they finish. Sometimes I'll just keep my mouth open and rest their Dick on the tip of my tongue and jerk them off so they watch their cum shoot all over my tongue. A lot of guys like that.

SamanthaJames
April 26th, 2017, 07:20 AM
Tastes can vary. I guess it depends on their diet. Sweeter foods they say make it sweeter. I don't know for sure. But I do love the taste and I do let them finish in my mouth and I do swallow. Like with others though, unless they want to cum somewhere else on or in me, but I don't mind either way. That said, communication is important. And what to do is entirely up to you.

How do your brothers taste?

ALEX_GEE
April 26th, 2017, 08:22 AM
Its a matter of preference and how you feel in the heat of the moment. Most guys will want to cum in your mouth and expect you to swallow - its a bragging right for guys if they can treat you like a porn star and get you to do this. On the other hand I've been with guys who want to humiliate you so they'll cum on your face, neck (a pearl necklace) or in your hair. At worst if they do it in your eyes it stings like a mofo! :( For me it depends on a lot of things - most of the time if he's nice and I'm into him then I'll let him shoot in my mouth and I'll swallow. If he's pushy, an a**hole or not very clean down there then at best all I'll let him do is cum on my boobs and if he's unclean then that thing is going nowhere near my mouth. If I'm feeling in a dirty mood then I will lower my standards and suck and swallow and although this isn't the kind of thing I openly scream from the rooftops, I have had 5 guys 'daisy'chain' me and I gave them all bj's, which was a lot of fun. However (and I can't stress this enough) - don't ever feel that you have to do anything that you don't want to or be pressurised into doing anything you're not comfortable with. I might act like a slut sometimes but believe me I don't do anything I don't want to and if I'm going to go down on a guy I make sure that I'm going to get exactly what I want before that happens! Just because other people are doing it, there's no reason to rush into it until you're ready. Or stick to girls - they're much better kissers and the oral sex is out of this world! Axxx

cbernal
April 26th, 2017, 08:26 AM
I really dont like the taste, but sometimes I will swallow just cause they like it so much. Same thing if they want to cum on my face. I dont mind that as much as long as it doesnt get in your eye.

cbernal
April 26th, 2017, 08:30 AM
i always swallow guys cum too messy to spit out and is good for skin and theeth according to my doctor. i have been swallowing since i was twelve so taste not to bad usually.

I dont know if this is true or not. It doesnt sound right....

ALEX_GEE
April 26th, 2017, 08:41 AM
I dont know if this is true or not. It doesnt sound right....

There have been a few articles on it - probably tjhe most sensible one was in Cosmopolitan - but while there are a few positives about semen, there are also negative side effects such as acne, testosterone in your skin and not forgetting the fact that it smells. The bottom line is that for the amount of jizz needed to do your skin any good by far outweighs the small amount of moisturiser you would need in comparison. If anything girls cum is much better for your skin because of the oestrogen in it - so it you're gonna skip the L'Oreal and put anyones cum on your face, its better to start off with your own. :) Axxx

ChloeF
April 26th, 2017, 09:27 AM
Its a matter of preference and how you feel in the heat of the moment. Most guys will want to cum in your mouth and expect you to swallow - its a bragging right for guys if they can treat you like a porn star and get you to do this. On the other hand I've been with guys who want to humiliate you so they'll cum on your face, neck (a pearl necklace) or in your hair. At worst if they do it in your eyes it stings like a mofo! :( For me it depends on a lot of things - most of the time if he's nice and I'm into him then I'll let him shoot in my mouth and I'll swallow. If he's pushy, an a**hole or not very clean down there then at best all I'll let him do is cum on my boobs and if he's unclean then that thing is going nowhere near my mouth. If I'm feeling in a dirty mood then I will lower my standards and suck and swallow and although this isn't the kind of thing I openly scream from the rooftops, I have had 5 guys 'daisy'chain' me and I gave them all bj's, which was a lot of fun. However (and I can't stress this enough) - don't ever feel that you have to do anything that you don't want to or be pressurised into doing anything you're not comfortable with. I might act like a slut sometimes but believe me I don't do anything I don't want to and if I'm going to go down on a guy I make sure that I'm going to get exactly what I want before that happens! Just because other people are doing it, there's no reason to rush into it until you're ready. Or stick to girls - they're much better kissers and the oral sex is out of this world! Axxx
Can l ask what a daisy chain is please?

Londongirl01
April 26th, 2017, 09:27 AM
I'll let a guy cum in my mouth but I won't always swallow. TBH I really don't like the taste all that much, so will either spit or swallow depending on what position I'm in when he cums.

Londongirl01
April 26th, 2017, 09:28 AM
An with the taste... I've found the taste depends more on how long it was since he last cum- the longer its been then the stronger it tastes

cbernal
April 26th, 2017, 09:53 AM
There have been a few articles on it - probably tjhe most sensible one was in Cosmopolitan - but while there are a few positives about semen, there are also negative side effects such as acne, testosterone in your skin and not forgetting the fact that it smells. The bottom line is that for the amount of jizz needed to do your skin any good by far outweighs the small amount of moisturiser you would need in comparison. If anything girls cum is much better for your skin because of the oestrogen in it - so it you're gonna skip the L'Oreal and put anyones cum on your face, its better to start off with your own. :) Axxx

Haha, I dont think Ill start doing that but it is interesting. Thanks!

ALEX_GEE
April 26th, 2017, 10:10 AM
Can l ask what a daisy chain is please?

Its where guys (or girls) lie head to head in a circle on the floor (like the petals on a daisy) and you take it in turns on each one to have sex or 69 them! Its one for the more adventurous. Axxx

ChloeF
April 26th, 2017, 10:50 AM
Its where guys (or girls) lie head to head in a circle on the floor (like the petals on a daisy) and you take it in turns on each one to have sex or 69 them! Its one for the more adventurous. Axxx

Gotcha, something else to add to the bucket list of things to try.

stoneflowe96
April 26th, 2017, 11:50 AM
I don't let a guy finish in my mouth. The taste is so bad for me that I get sick. I don't know why this is for me. Even with a condom it taste better. If he would finish in my moth, I would spit it out. The few times swallowing were not pleasent. Once I got forced to swallow, because he bagged a lot and let me feel if I would not swallow, I would be not realy love him. never again. I do not say I don't like oral sex, I like it, but there are some things I do not like which should be respected

PiercedGirl04
April 27th, 2017, 07:58 AM
I always swallow every time.

Shiny Moon
April 27th, 2017, 09:57 AM
I haven't been able to find any recent threads with girls' comments on this, so please, responses from girls only.

When you give a guy a BJ, do you let him finish in your mouth or something else?

If he finishes in your mouth, then what? Swallow? Spit?

FYI: I've never had a boyfriend and have never given anyone oral. I'm just curious to know what everyone is doing so I have some idea of what to expect. Thank you.

If a guy finishes in my mouth, I always swallow. I love it and I know guys love to see me doing it.

Some people don't like the cum at all and they just spit it or ask the guy not to finish in the mouth, and that's ok too, everyone's different ;)

SeeEmilyPlay
April 27th, 2017, 01:34 PM
I have a follow up question. If your guy cums in your mouth, does he usually stay right in your mouth while they finish?

yes, he likes to stay in my mouth and I like to keep sucking. you have to do it more softly, guys get very sensitive during and after finishing.

DerpyGirl
April 27th, 2017, 03:07 PM
I don't let a guy finish in my mouth. The taste is so bad for me that I get sick. I don't know why this is for me. Even with a condom it taste better. If he would finish in my moth, I would spit it out. The few times swallowing were not pleasent. Once I got forced to swallow, because he bagged a lot and let me feel if I would not swallow, I would be not realy love him. never again. I do not say I don't like oral sex, I like it, but there are some things I do not like which should be respected

Seriously? What a big jerk. That's one reason I'm apprehensive to ever do anything with a guy. They make you feel bad if you don't want to do something. Never ever do something you're not comfortable with

StacyD
April 27th, 2017, 03:35 PM
Seriously? What a big jerk. That's one reason I'm apprehensive to ever do anything with a guy. They make you feel bad if you don't want to do something. Never ever do something you're not comfortable with

That last part you said is true no matter who you are with, girl or guy. But just fwiw, not all guys are like that. He was clearly a jerk and way out of line. I would never tolerate anything like that. But just know, not all guys are that way.

DerpyGirl
April 27th, 2017, 05:02 PM
Good point Stacy, I've just head about it happening with more guys than girls. I understand not all are like that though. They should at least be given a chance I suppose

clarissanyx
April 27th, 2017, 06:05 PM
I enjoy facials and swallowing equally. I do the latter less often. I do what the guy prefers.

LanaPole
April 27th, 2017, 09:26 PM
Swallowing is the default ending of a blowjob for me. I love the taste from different boys. Sometimes they cum with their cock in my mouth or other times I open my mouth and they shoot in me. Unless they want to cum somewhere else, swallowing is how I end a bj. If they cum on me, I'll still clean up by licking and swallowing all the cum.

angelamartines
April 27th, 2017, 09:32 PM
Swallowing is the default ending of a blowjob for me. I love the taste from different boys. Sometimes they cum with their cock in my mouth or other times I open my mouth and they shoot in me. Unless they want to cum somewhere else, swallowing is how I end a bj. If they cum on me, I'll still clean up by licking and swallowing all the cum.

That's prety much how I see it too but I know some girls get sick from cum's taste and I've read somewhere online some girls are alergic to cum... and some boys are just dirty pigs too... I respect that some girls don't like it but I think unless you got a good reason you should try and always swallow

LanaPole
April 27th, 2017, 10:20 PM
That's prety much how I see it too but I know some girls get sick from cum's taste and I've read somewhere online some girls are alergic to cum... and some boys are just dirty pigs too... I respect that some girls don't like it but I think unless you got a good reason you should try and always swallow

Agreed. I've never heard about allergies toward cum though.

angelamartines
April 27th, 2017, 10:25 PM
Agreed. I've never heard about allergies toward cum though.

http://www.webmd.com/allergies/news/20061113/semen-allergies-helped-by-frequent-sex

I'm not sure where I first read about it though... It was about a girl who nearly died from an allergic reaction to a guy's cum...

LanaPole
April 27th, 2017, 10:31 PM
http://www.webmd.com/allergies/news/20061113/semen-allergies-helped-by-frequent-sex

I'm not sure where I first read about it though... It was about a girl who nearly died from an allergic reaction to a guy's cum...

Ok..I'm glad I don't have the problem

angelamartines
April 27th, 2017, 10:41 PM
Ok..I'm glad I don't have the problem

yeah me too!

Mollypop
April 28th, 2017, 12:41 AM
Good point Stacy, I've just head about it happening with more guys than girls. I understand not all are like that though. They should at least be given a chance I suppose

They should. I give them a chance. But if they're jerks about that sort of stuff they don't get another one with me.

geanyna
April 28th, 2017, 03:28 AM
i love it when a guy cums in my mouth. love the feeling... and yeah, also love the taste. always swallow except when im in the mood for snowballing with another girl.
also had guys pulling out and shooting all over my face or cleavage. im not into that too much when im all dressed up... but wont mind when im naked.

shamrockgirl02
April 29th, 2017, 01:06 AM
I let a guy nut in my mouth like 60% of the time I suck cock. And I swallow the load 100% of those times. The other times I'm content to have him cum somewhere else sexy, face, boobies, etc

I have a follow up question. If your guy cums in your mouth, does he usually stay right in your mouth while they finish?

Yes, I keep the penis in my mouth until a few moments after completion, unless there's some other way I can enhance the feeling of his orgasm. If I'm already okay with it happening in my mouth, why make him pull away from what's making him feel so good in his moment of ecstasy?


Posts merged. ~Endeavour

geanyna
April 29th, 2017, 02:12 AM
Yes, I keep the penis in my mouth until a few moments after completion, unless there's some other way I can enhance the feeling of his orgasm. If I'm already okay with it happening in my mouth, why make him pull away from what's making him feel so good in his moment of ecstasy?

i do the same and i also keep on sucking hard while hes cumming. from what guys have told me this even adds to their ecstasy. plus i make sure not to waste a single drop lol

stoneflowe96
April 29th, 2017, 03:57 AM
[QUOTE=DerpyGirl;3513655]Seriously? What a big jerk. That's one reason I'm apprehensive to ever do anything with a guy. They make you feel bad if you don't want to do something. Never ever do something you're not comfortable with]

yes it's sad but true. It was with my second bf and I broke up with him some weeks after that. Yes, now I do only things I'm comfortable with. Of course I do accept without any hesitation if the person I'm intimit with is not comfortable with something I would like to do. I don't think it is every guy this kind of jerk, but there some

Living For Love
April 29th, 2017, 09:19 AM
This is not appropriate. :locked: