HELP!!! Penis won't fit!

[ecuador2000]

so I am a virgin ( girl ), me and my boyfriend ( also virgin) tried to have sex today and it wouldn't go in for some reason, it went in the tiniest bit then just wouldn't go in any finer no matter how hard he pushed. I am a virgin so this is my first time having sex, nothing else has been in there either so my hymen is not broken. :confused:
PS: my boyfriends girth and length is quite large, could this be an issue?

What could be wrong?
Is there any possible solutions or different methods/tips/ positions?

[volleyballer13]

Dont think we are supposed give a to give advice on here.

[ecuador2000]

Dont think we are supposed give a to give advice on here.

What else is this forum for? I'm sure it is to help and give advice or say what might be the issue?

[volleyballer13]

What else is this forum for? I'm sure it is to help and give advice or say what might be the issue?

Well ive heard of people getting banned for it. Also this isnt really puberty related. Mods let me know if i need to delete. First id say make sure he is trying the right hole. next id say lube and third maybe try breaking your hymen with a personal massager first. good luck.

[ecuador2000]

Well ive heard of people getting banned for it. Also this isnt really puberty related. Mods let me know if i need to delete. First id say make sure he is trying the right hole. next id say lube and third maybe try breaking your hymen with a personal massager first. good luck.

Thank you

[zzzzzzzzzz]

so I am a virgin ( girl ), me and my boyfriend ( also virgin) tried to have sex today and it wouldn't go in for some reason, it went in the tiniest bit then just wouldn't go in any finer no matter how hard he pushed. I am a virgin so this is my first time having sex, nothing else has been in there either so my hymen is not broken. :confused:
PS: my boyfriends girth and length is quite large, could this be an issue?

What could be wrong?
Is there any possible solutions or different methods/tips/ positions?

How old are you both? How big is he? have you used your finger on yourself yet, or hair brush handle?

[ecuador2000]

How old are you both? How big is he? have you used your finger on yourself yet, or hair brush handle?

No I haven't. We are 16, so legal here in U.K. And he's is 6.9 inches

[zzzzzzzzzz]

No I haven't. We are 16, so legal here in U.K. And he's is 6.9 inches

cool. It might just take a bit more practice. And fun!

[ClaraWho]

Try speaking to a doctor, your boyfriend isn't that much above average and remember the vagina can stretch to accommodate a baby.

Have you considered also that you may not mentally be ready for sex? It might be you are extremely tense and worried about it, thus muscles are contracting subconsciously. As for giving actual advice on how to have sex, as has been pointed out, that is against the forum rules. This site is for puberty related questions, not questions on how to actually HAVE sex or sexual techniques, and your question is borderline. Welcome to green though!

~ Clara

[Atlantis]

This isn't really puberty related. :locked: