I want to ask this boy out

[lyvegie]

At my school there's a foreign exchange student from Brazil. I never seen him date anyone here plus rumor that he's gay. How do I ask him out if I don't know? He's a year ahead of me in class so I only see him at lunch and p.e. I'm trying not to sound cheesy but the way he makes me feel the couple times I talked to him is sooooo good. I'm so crushing on him. Can anyone help?

[Bontigo Papi .]

Don't trust rumours . You'll probably be too ashamed to ask him straight out if he's gay , but you should find out the truth before you take any further action because a wrong move can end a friendship .

[ska8er]

Introduce urself and make friends. Get to
know each other better and then c where the
friendship goes. Don't mention anything bout
being gay-just b friends first.

[Just JT]

Good advice above. Seems you already started talking so....why not ask to hang out sometime. Get something to eat or play some video games or something else you might have in common. Just get to know him better.

Leave his sexuality out of it, if he feels ok with sharing it with you in some way he will. He'll probably need to feel he can trust younfirst (building a friendship). Then he'll let you know, if he is that is.

Asking...???? Maybe, after a friendship can stand that question. And it's hard to know when that is. Let him make that choice. It's his sexuality.

But also, if you felt your potential friendship could handle it (and not out of the gate) you could drop hints about your own sexuality or the topic and watch/listen for a response from him. And nobody gets hurt

[SethfromMI]

At my school there's a foreign exchange student from Brazil. I never seen him date anyone here plus rumor that he's gay. How do I ask him out if I don't know? He's a year ahead of me in class so I only see him at lunch and p.e. I'm trying not to sound cheesy but the way he makes me feel the couple times I talked to him is sooooo good. I'm so crushing on him. Can anyone help?

continue to get to know him better. as others have mentioned, don't just go on rumors if he is gay. the more you get to know him, the more comfortable you will be with him and the more him with you.

eventually you can casually ask one day are you dating anyone or who do you got a crush on and see what he says. this is a good question because it doesn't come out directly asking if he is gay. if he is gay and he is open about it or at least comfortable enough to tell you, he may tell you. then again, if he is gay, he still may be in the closet. he might tell you he is interested in a girl and may not be gay at all.

so many different possibilities, but for now, just keep on getting to know him better as a friend and then see what doors mayo pen up for you

[Just JT]

In the end the best relationships you have are ones your also friends with anyways. Have common interests, likes and dislikes etc. the rest is a lot easier if your friends first

[ceto2]

I want to ask this boy out but not sore if he wil say yes.he is so sweet n helpful and make me happy when we chat to each. What should i do

[Emilyyy]

Yeah I agree that you'll need to find out for sure if he is interested in guys before moving too much forward. Just trying talking to him more and finding out more about him before you do anything. Hopefully that way you'll know one way of the other.

[JakeyZ]

NEVER just go on rumours. Become his friend and find out in time. If he's gay, go for it and if not just continue being his friend

[lyvegie]

One of my girl friends said to sit next to him at lunch and try to eat his food. She said that's what boys do with her.

[Just JT]

One of my girl friends said to sit next to him at lunch and try to eat his food. She said that's what boys do with her.

Lol!!!
You could try that haha!!
Not sure it's a sign he likes you like that, but I'm pretty sure it might start a new conversation.
Maybe that's a good thing

I never thought of that, think I'll try that one :)

[lyvegie]

We sat together at lunch friday. We text now. He's really nice.

[Straya]

sounds like things are going good and as others have said become good friends and see how things but it sounds like your off to a good start