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micd2000
April 11th, 2017, 01:21 AM
So there's this guy I like, and we flirted all of the time and went out over the summer, but then it just seemed to fizzle out. I thought he didn't want to go anywhere, but the other day he called me at 1:45 in the morning. He told me he loved me, and rambled on about how he wanted to be more than friends. The problem is, he was also VERY drunk. Should I take him seriously? He didn't remember anything the next morning, but I told him what happened, and all he said was that he hoped he didn't hurt me.
ska8er
April 11th, 2017, 06:42 AM
It was the alcohol talking. U could either take it
that he does like u but has to get hammered to tell
u or he wanted to b more than friends in another way.
Anyone who calls u that early in the morning and drunk
I would forget about cause u will only get hurt.
Emilyyy
April 11th, 2017, 04:01 PM
I dunno but if you haven't heard from him in ages then he calls you drunk, to me it doesn't really seem that he's that interested in you really. Kinda silly thing to do really.
RideOrDie
April 11th, 2017, 06:05 PM
Absolutley not imo, but that's totally up to you. If he can't talk about his feelings when he's sober, then I don't think he deserves you, or that he really meant what he told you.
lliam
April 11th, 2017, 06:35 PM
You should not take that seriously.
Alcohol is detrimental, so that people confess things they never would admit in a sober state. But there are many reasons that make people say such things in the alkalized state. Bring it up, when he's sober.
jamie_n5
April 13th, 2017, 06:17 PM
He probably meant a lot of what he said. Alcohol loosens you inhibitions and makes you tell or say things you might normally not say or do. So you can take it for what it's worth. All guys are horny most of the time and I am sure he would love to get in your pants but he most likely would be polite and normal when sober. You wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone who uses or abuses alcohol regularly. That would be bad news.
Bontigo Papi .
April 14th, 2017, 02:44 AM
He probably meant a lot of what he said. Alcohol loosens you inhibitions and makes you tell or say things you might normally not say or do. So you can take it for what it's worth. All guys are horny most of the time and I am sure he would love to get in your pants but he most likely would be polite and normal when sober. You wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone who uses or abuses alcohol regularly. That would be bad news.
Yeah , drunk people tend to tell the truth so you should just ask him straight out how he feels about everything . It's a worth a shot . I also agree with what Jamie says here , if guys that use alcohol aren't your thing , then move on .
JakeyZ
April 15th, 2017, 05:32 AM
There may be some truth to it. When I was drunk I told my best friends boyfriend I loved him, but I meant it totally platonically. Since he said "more than friends", I'd definitely talk to him about that night and maybe tell him you feel the same way.
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