Recurring wet dreams

[StillWaiting]

I thought wet dreams are supposed to happen less and less the more you have them, but apparently I still get one about twice a month.

And I can't cum while awake for some reason, even if I masturbate for 15 minutes straight.

So what do I do?

[Hermes]

I don't think anyone has suggested that getting wet dreams by itself makes their frequency decrease. Guys do report that ejaculating some other way, for example by masturbating, usually makes them less common or even stop.

If you can ejaculate in a wet dream I'd expect that you'd be able to do it by masturbating too. What causes you to finish a masturbation session? Are you getting the orgasm? You should get a really intense feeling with contractions etc. and then feel relaxed afterwards. If you're getting a tingling a bit like you need to pee and are stopping there then carry on at that point.

[JakeyZ]

I stopped having wet dreams when i started wanking more frequently

[DarkKnight16]

I rarely have them, I only had a wet dream twice in my life.

[niklas]

I think for most guys, masturbation tends to reduce or eliminate wet dreams. Some guys have said they've never had wet dreams at all. Personally, I masturbate regularly, but still have occasional wet dreams. Like they always, everybody's a little different. It is interesting that you can have a wet dream, but don't ejaculate when awake masturbating. Are you stopping too soon? I'm assuming your not having trouble keeping your erection during masturbation.

[Alan T]

I still have wet dreams every few weeks.

[StillWaiting]

I don't think anyone has suggested that getting wet dreams by itself makes their frequency decrease. Guys do report that ejaculating some other way, for example by masturbating, usually makes them less common or even stop.

If you can ejaculate in a wet dream I'd expect that you'd be able to do it by masturbating too. What causes you to finish a masturbation session? Are you getting the orgasm? You should get a really intense feeling with contractions etc. and then feel relaxed afterwards. If you're getting a tingling a bit like you need to pee and are stopping there then carry on at that point.

I finish because it seems like I'm never going to get the orgasm. I plateau at a certain point, where I am super hard and shaking a bit, but never cum. And it's impossible to pee when I'm that hard.

[pageninetynine]

I actually get more of them now than I used to.

[jamie_n5]

I have never had a wet dream cause I masturbate daily or have sex. I don't know why you won't cum while masturbating. Maybe you are subconsciously up tight about something. Do you ever try porn to make you super horny?

[StillWaiting]

I have never had a wet dream cause I masturbate daily or have sex. I don't know why you won't cum while masturbating. Maybe you are subconsciously up tight about something. Do you ever try porn to make you super horny?
It is not in my values to watch porn, neither do I want to. I'll just keep trying using my fantasies and my hand.

[Cassius16]

I get wet dreams and I masturbate regularly so I don't think they necessarily stop completely

[Hermes]

I finish because it seems like I'm never going to get the orgasm. I plateau at a certain point, where I am super hard and shaking a bit, but never cum. And it's impossible to pee when I'm that hard.

The fact you can't pee at that point is an indication that your body has got ready for cumming. It's actually good to sit on that plateau for a while but eventually you need to go for it - make things more intense by speeding up, gripping a little tighter maybe, choosing the bits that are most sensitive etc. It may take a little perseverence but it will feel great when you manage it.