I still like this girl, but i'am a little confused on her opinion

[Cjmccjface]

I have been talking to this girl on Instagram, who I sent a gram to on Valentine's day. but I just got back to talking to her, I'd try saying how are you doing. And she didn't answer back. As you would guess, i'am jumping to big negative concussions​.

How can you tell if she deleted your DM thread?

What can I say to her, should I open up another thread?



I barely ever see her at school, so should I just leave her alone, and "find another fish in the Sea"?

Sorry for not being specific, not I don't​ know what to think,.If you need holes filled in the story, I will fill them just ask.

[Phosphene]

Not sure on knowing if she deleted your DM thread as I don't use Instagram. How many times have you tried to connect with her without getting a response? If you've already tried a few times it's best to stop, you don't want her to feel pestered or like she's being harassed.

[Cjmccjface]

I have only talked to her once, and that was when I sent her the gram, she showed slight interest then. And I asked her how she was doing yesterday, with no answer.Maybe she hasn't checked her Instagram, as she doesn't post a lot. Or maybe her parents took her phone away, idk. But I hope she isn't flat out ignoring me.

[Phosphene]

Try not to stress about it too much, if she replies that's great and if she doesn't that's ok as well. You barely see each other at school - do you think she recognizes you?

[Cjmccjface]

Yes she does, if i'am coming from another direction; she will glance at me then look back after a second. She knows who I am. She is on her guard

[Phosphene]

Well don't be too pushy, she will approach you if she wants to :) if you never get a reaction or response I think you should stop trying.

[Cjmccjface]

Ok thank you, should I try to DM her?
If you think so what should I say?

[Phosphene]

No, if she wanted to talk to you it sounds like she's had plenty of opportunities to do that already. Either she's going to approach you on her own or nothing is going to become of it