Don't seems to get hard when fooling around with my boyfriend

[Jonathan1998]

I'm not sure if this is in the right section, but everytime me and my bf are together alone in a room, we start making out and then start fooling around a bit.

I do get horny but the thing is I just don't seem to get hard, I don't know why, it's really distressing for me, and for my bf too, I do love him and stuff but I'm not sure what's up with me, but it keeps going soft, I only got a semi once, I have no idea why, I need help, any ideas?

I didn't mean for any storytelling in this aha, but I don't get why, I think that it's the fact we've only been dating like 2 - 3 weeks. But either way any ideas?

[MechaSniper]

If this offends you I'm sorry but maybe it's starting to get old. Because maybe your just so use to him being around. Don't break up because I said this but try "fooling around" less often.

[Hermes96]

try thinking of somthing that would normally give you a hard on

[Jonathan1998]

We only see each other on weekends

[mww113]

Could be that you're desensitized to some types of stimuli. Maybe you've been wanking a bit much or watching a lot of porn or something?

[NickCollins]

like they said your probably desensitizing yourself to him
dont fool around for a while and try different things when you do fool around
good luck

[chrisjenkins]

I agree with the others. Lay off the sex for a bit.

[ksdnfkfr]

I do get horny but the thing is I just don't seem to get hard, I don't know why, it's really distressing for me, and for my bf too, I do love him and stuff but I'm not sure what's up with me, but it keeps going soft, I only got a semi once, I have no idea why, I need help, any ideas?

Is it only when you are with him this happens?

[eggy101]

Maybe whats happening isnt what your into, try new stuff, but always be safe.

[mikemidas63]

If all fails have a plan C. never have a plan B coz they go horribly wrong. If you aren't getting hard, think outside the box. If it's sex try more creative or exciting positions. Maybe a bit of roleplay
But if that doesn't work then you should see a professional.

[daniel 2014]

Do you get it up other times? If not then it could be erectile disfunction...

[Wyatt 13]

Sorry if this question bother you a bit, but are you sure you are gay?

[sieg]

it might be your body's way of telling you he's not the right one for you? just a thought

[Ethe14]

Sorry if this question bother you a bit, but are you sure you are gay?

That's a good question, are you sure?

[IAMWILL]

One of the reasons you may be having trouble is nervousness. If you're nervously excited or nervous because you're worried you won't be able to get it up, its going to make it harder...to make it harder. Little bit of deep breaths and doing whatever calms you best beforehand will probably help.

[Mini]

It has been tested that people who excessively masturbate with a death grip cannot ejaculate with a softer touch.

What I am saying is that humans get used to things after a while. You are obviously desensitized, which means you should lay off it for a while and make the "fooling around" a little more special. I don't really know though, it is your body dude.

[ColinB]

Do thoughts of other guys get you hard? If so your probably nervous....and the more times it happens the more freaked out you'll be. If you get nervous and worry about it it will more than likely happen again. Try a change in scenery when your making out....or try something new.....is there something about him that is a turn off? .

[male_greece]

dunno, try fooling around more?

[Jackman1800]

I have difficulty getting hard too