Why do my hands do this?

[britwalkz]

When I come close to orgasm when I masturbate via clit, my fingers seem to go numb or I lose control of them and can't finish. Is that weird? :eek:

[Nanael]

I dont think its weird the body has for eahc hgrisls ha s different ways that feel the orgasm especailyl if the orgasm is really big but i dot n think its wierd ... i hope oyu understand what i mean

[jenny2234]

I've felt toes go numb but not the fingers.

[Lisa R]

I have also experienced this i think its from being tensed up.

[sweet_girl24au]

One solution? use a toy or something that vibrates ;)

[taurus97]

I haven't experienced it myself using my fingers but i sometimes use my Impulse spray tin or my vibe when i'm not using my fingers just to lighten things up a little. :)

[Tina36DD]

Its the motion...going too fast...my hand cramps up..so I started using toys..I have a small egg vibe when Im not near my toys. I have quite a few. My aunt buys them for me or I buy them on Amazon or eBay with her account.

[Jenni.]

Losing control of your body is one of the side effect of an orgasm, don't worry at all :P just enjoy it :D

[martogogo]

it's ok, don't worry :)

[Swimmie]

I often lose control of my body when I reach orgasm... That's why I never masturbate standing ahahhahaha I fell once when I came lol the orgasm felt great, but having my mother come to my room ask me if I was ok, wasn't so cool hahaha
by the way, if you can't keep rubbing, just press hard on your clit... it works sometimes!

[ozteen]

hehe, sounds like ur getting really tense, try to relax a little...

[becca07]

Hands and fingers can be tricky sometimes lol...sometimes they have a mind of their own. With fingers/hands you give yourself a lot of control when m-bating and if you are newish to to orgasms and m-bating the pleasure and feeling can be intense. It was for me when i first learned and had kind of the same issue where i would sort of tense up and get anxious about going over that edge.

It got to the point tho that when i was m-bating and didn't fully finish off myself that i kind of found a way on its own to sort of solve the problem and finally be able to O. Since not fully finishing those times in my early years i would always go to bed really horny and frustrated. I would usually stick a pillow between my legs as a sort of way to calm and give relief to my puss ( pressure felt nice). Well one night i was so frustrated i started to hump my pillow and sure enough i had O ( it was really intense since you dont have as much control over what happens as appose to using your fingers...your body kind of just takes over)

[lost.girl]

Happens all the time! So annoying!

[NotShortButFunsized]

That's why I never masturbate standing ahahhahaha I fell once when I came lol the orgasm felt great, but having my mother come to my room ask me if I was ok, wasn't so cool hahaha


You have just verified my every fear on doing it standing >.<

Lol