Should I Message Her ?

[Bontigo Papi .]

I've been busy with a girl I've known that attends my church for a year at least , we had a fight last year and we managed to fix things , but then we had another fight and we didn't speak for three months . I had to speak to her last week and she just said it's fine when I apologized . Since then (last week) I've heard nothing from her and I don't know if I should message her or not . maybe she's cool with me but she doesn't want to be friends , I don't know , I mean , the options are plentiful .

[BlackParadePixie]

it doesn't hurt to find out. just contact her.

[beckiirs]

If you want to you should message her, no harm done if not :)

[Just JT]

Ask her for a cup of coffee and just talk. Let her know how you feel and stuff. See what that get ya

[Bontigo Papi .]

Ask her for a cup of coffee and just talk. Let her know how you feel and stuff. See what that get ya

yep , been planning to do that but here in South Africa , it's not as easy as that . if I get a car , I might take her out to lunch or something , I promised her that and I hope she'll still remember it by the time I actually do that .

[Emilyyy]

I dunno but if she's not really making much of an effort to stay in contact, it doesn't really seem like you are that important to her. Like she might just have other friends she's busy with at the moment but I wouldn't hold out hope for much more than a friendship from this.

Message her every so often just asking her how she's getting on and stuff just to let her know you are thinking of her :)