For girls: If you HAVE HAD sex with a boy, what made you decide to do it?

[scott2002]

I'm sorry I'm so curious about how girls make this big decision, either TO have sex, or NOT to have sex with a boy. Thanks!!
This is about the FIRST TIME you ever had sex with a boy:

[ ] I really wanted to do it, to experience it.
[ ] I just felt it was time to do it.
[ ] Pressure from other GIRLS to do it.
[ ] Pressure from THE BOY to do it, and I finally said okay.
[ ] It was forced on me. The boy made me do it.
[ ] My first time, it was planned we were gonna do it.
[ ] My first time, I wasn't planning on doing it. It just happened and I wanted to do it.
[ ] OTHER REASONS:

[ ] I ENJOYED IT that first time.
[ ] I had an orgasm that first time having sex.
[ ] IT HURT that first time.
[ ] I DID NOT enjoy it that first time (but not because it hurt)

[ ] The boy came real quick.
[ ] The boy took way too long!
[ ] The boy COULDN'T FINISH (Lost his erection, or just couldn't climax.)
[ ] It lasted just about as long as I wanted it to.

[BlackParadePixie]

[ x ] I really wanted to do it, to experience it.
[ ] I just felt it was time to do it.
[ ] Pressure from other GIRLS to do it.
[ ] Pressure from THE BOY to do it, and I finally said okay.
[ ] It was forced on me. The boy made me do it.
[ x ] My first time, it was planned we were gonna do it.
[ ] My first time, I wasn't planning on doing it. It just happened and I wanted to do it.
[ ] OTHER REASONS:

[ ] I ENJOYED IT that first time.
[ ] I had an orgasm that first time having sex.
[ x ] IT HURT that first time.
[ ] I DID NOT enjoy it that first time (but not because it hurt)

[ x ] The boy came real quick.
[ ] The boy took way too long!
[ ] The boy COULDN'T FINISH (Lost his erection, or just couldn't climax.)
[ x ] It lasted just about as long as I wanted it to.

[jen698]

[ ] I really wanted to do it, to experience it.
[ ] I just felt it was time to do it.
[ ] Pressure from other GIRLS to do it.
[ ] Pressure from THE BOY to do it, and I finally said okay.
[ ] It was forced on me. The boy made me do it.
[ ] My first time, it was planned we were gonna do it.
[ x] My first time, I wasn't planning on doing it. It just happened and I wanted to do it.
[ ] OTHER REASONS:

[ ] I ENJOYED IT that first time.
[ ] I had an orgasm that first time having sex.
[x ] IT HURT that first time.
[ ] I DID NOT enjoy it that first time (but not because it hurt)

[x ] The boy came real quick.
[ ] The boy took way too long!
[ ] The boy COULDN'T FINISH (Lost his erection, or just couldn't climax.)
[ ] It lasted just about as long as I wanted it to.

[Anna Kadlecova]

I have experience only with anal sex.

[ x] I really wanted to do it, to experience it.
[ ] I just felt it was time to do it.
[ ] Pressure from other GIRLS to do it.
[ ] Pressure from THE BOY to do it, and I finally said okay.
[ ] It was forced on me. The boy made me do it.
[ x] My first time, it was planned we were gonna do it.
[ ] My first time, I wasn't planning on doing it. It just happened and I wanted to do it.
[ ] OTHER REASONS:

[ x] I ENJOYED IT that first time.
[ ] I had an orgasm that first time having sex.
[ ] IT HURT that first time.
[ ] I DID NOT enjoy it that first time (but not because it hurt)

[ ] The boy came real quick.
[ ] The boy took way too long!
[ ] The boy COULDN'T FINISH (Lost his erection, or just couldn't climax.)
[ x] It lasted just about as long as I wanted it to.

[Kaja Fialiva]

[ x] I really wanted to do it, to experience it. (anal)
[x ] I just felt it was time to do it. (normal)
[ ] Pressure from other GIRLS to do it.
[ ] Pressure from THE BOY to do it, and I finally said okay.
[ ] It was forced on me. The boy made me do it.
[ x] My first time, it was planned we were gonna do it. (anal)
[ x] My first time, I wasn't planning on doing it. It just happened and I wanted to do it. (normal)
[ ] OTHER REASONS:

[ x] I ENJOYED IT that first time. (normal)
[ ] I had an orgasm that first time having sex.
[x ] IT HURT that first time. (anal)
[ ] I DID NOT enjoy it that first time (but not because it hurt)

[ x] The boy came real quick. (anal)
[ ] The boy took way too long!
[ ] The boy COULDN'T FINISH (Lost his erection, or just couldn't climax.)
[ x] It lasted just about as long as I wanted it to. (normal)

[lenka11]

I have experience only with anal sex.

[ ] I really wanted to do it, to experience it.
[x] I just felt it was time to do it.
[ ] Pressure from other GIRLS to do it.
[ ] Pressure from THE BOY to do it, and I finally said okay.
[ ] It was forced on me. The boy made me do it.
[x] My first time, it was planned we were gonna do it.
[ ] My first time, I wasn't planning on doing it. It just happened and I wanted to do it.
[ ] OTHER REASONS:

[x] I ENJOYED IT that first time.
[ ] I had an orgasm that first time having sex.
[ ] IT HURT that first time.
[ ] I DID NOT enjoy it that first time (but not because it hurt)

[x] The boy came real quick.
[ ] The boy took way too long!
[ ] The boy COULDN'T FINISH (Lost his erection, or just couldn't climax.)
[ ] It lasted just about as long as I wanted it to.

[Abby98]

It just felt it was the right time
My first time I wasn't planning on doing it. It just happened and I wanted to do it
I had a squirting orgasm first time I had sex
He lasted as long as I wanted him to. He cum loads he shot his load inside me then shot another load all over me

[nicole97]

[ ] I really wanted to do it, to experience it.
[x] I just felt it was time to do it.
[ ] Pressure from other GIRLS to do it.
[ ] Pressure from THE BOY to do it, and I finally said okay.
[ ] It was forced on me. The boy made me do it.
[x] My first time, it was planned we were gonna do it.
[ ] My first time, I wasn't planning on doing it. It just happened and I wanted to do it.
[ ] OTHER REASONS:

[sorta] I ENJOYED IT that first time.
[ ] I had an orgasm that first time having sex.
[x] IT HURT that first time.
[ ] I DID NOT enjoy it that first time (but not because it hurt)

[x] The boy came real quick.
[ ] The boy took way too long!
[ ] The boy COULDN'T FINISH (Lost his erection, or just couldn't climax.)
[ ] It lasted just about as long as I wanted it to.

[scott2002]

I appreciate the replies so far. Thank you. It helps me understand how girls decide to do it.

[The1uwant]

[X ] I really wanted to do it, to experience it.
[ ] I just felt it was time to do it.
[ ] Pressure from other GIRLS to do it.
[ ] Pressure from THE BOY to do it, and I finally said okay.
[ ] It was forced on me. The boy made me do it.
[X ] My first time, it was planned we were gonna do it.
[ ] My first time, I wasn't planning on doing it. It just happened and I wanted to do it.
[ ] OTHER REASONS:

[X ] I ENJOYED IT that first time.
[ ] I had an orgasm that first time having sex.
[ ] IT HURT that first time.
[ ] I DID NOT enjoy it that first time (but not because it hurt)

[X ] The boy came real quick.
[ ] The boy took way too long!
[ ] The boy COULDN'T FINISH (Lost his erection, or just couldn't climax.)
[ ] It lasted just about as long as I wanted it to.

[Mollypop]

[ X] I really wanted to do it, to experience it.
[ X] I just felt it was time to do it.
[ ] Pressure from other GIRLS to do it.
[ ] Pressure from THE BOY to do it, and I finally said okay.
[ ] It was forced on me. The boy made me do it.
[ X] My first time, it was planned we were gonna do it.
[ ] My first time, I wasn't planning on doing it. It just happened and I wanted to do it.
[ ] OTHER REASONS:

[ X ] I ENJOYED IT that first time.
[ ] I had an orgasm that first time having sex.
[ ] IT HURT that first time.
[ ] I DID NOT enjoy it that first time (but not because it hurt)

[ X ] The boy came real quick.
[ ] The boy took way too long!
[ ] The boy COULDN'T FINISH (Lost his erection, or just couldn't climax.)
[ ] It lasted just about as long as I wanted it to.[/QUOTE]

[shy_indian_chick]

[ X] I really wanted to do it, to experience it.
[ X] I just felt it was time to do it.
[ ] Pressure from other GIRLS to do it.
[ ] Pressure from THE BOY to do it, and I finally said okay.
[ ] It was forced on me. The boy made me do it.
[ ] My first time, it was planned we were gonna do it.
[ ] My first time, I wasn't planning on doing it. It just happened and I wanted to do it.
[ ] OTHER REASONS:

[ X ] I ENJOYED IT that first time.
[ ] I had an orgasm that first time having sex.
[ ] IT HURT that first time.
[ ] I DID NOT enjoy it that first time (but not because it hurt)

[ X ] The boy came real quick.
[ ] The boy took way too long!
[ ] The boy COULDN'T FINISH (Lost his erection, or just couldn't climax.)
[ ] It lasted just about as long as I wanted it to.[/QUOTE][/QUOTE]

Just an observation: almost all of the responses seem to include "the boy came real quick" - I know boys tend to worry about this, but just try not to, we understand you aren't yet used to the feeling. You can always get hard and go again, it's not like teenage boys have a limited number of erections.

[Mollypop]

Just an observation: almost all of the responses seem to include "the boy came real quick" - I know boys tend to worry about this, but just try not to, we understand you aren't yet used to the feeling. You can always get hard and go again, it's not like teenage boys have a limited number of erections.

This is so true. Even after he did it he stayed hard and we kept going. I was satisfied and not frustrated at all.

[RideOrDie]

[X] I really wanted to do it, to experience it.
[X] I just felt it was time to do it.
[ ] Pressure from other GIRLS to do it.
[ ] Pressure from THE BOY to do it, and I finally said okay.
[ ] It was forced on me. The boy made me do it.
[X] My first time, it was planned we were gonna do it.
[ ] My first time, I wasn't planning on doing it. It just happened and I wanted to do it.
[ ] OTHER REASONS:

[X] I ENJOYED IT that first time.
[ ] I had an orgasm that first time having sex.
[X] IT HURT that first time.
[ ] I DID NOT enjoy it that first time (but not because it hurt)

[X] The boy came real quick.
[ ] The boy took way too long!
[ ] The boy COULDN'T FINISH (Lost his erection, or just couldn't climax.)
[ ] It lasted just about as long as I wanted it to.

[scott2002]

Thanks for great responses!

[ClaraPott]

[ ] I really wanted to do it, to experience it.
[ x] I just felt it was time to do it.
[ ] Pressure from other GIRLS to do it.
[x ] Pressure from THE BOY to do it, and I finally said okay.
[ ] It was forced on me. The boy made me do it.
[ ] My first time, it was planned we were gonna do it.
[ x] My first time, I wasn't planning on doing it. It just happened and I wanted to do it.
[ ] OTHER REASONS:

[ x] I ENJOYED IT that first time.
[ ] I had an orgasm that first time having sex.
[x ] IT HURT that first time. - only when he destroid my hymen
[ ] I DID NOT enjoy it that first time (but not because it hurt)

[ x] The boy came real quick.
[ ] The boy took way too long!
[ ] The boy COULDN'T FINISH (Lost his erection, or just couldn't climax.)
[ ] It lasted just about as long as I wanted it to.

[Theekshana]

[X] I really wanted to do it, to experience it.
[ ] I just felt it was time to do it.
[ ] Pressure from other GIRLS to do it.
[X] Pressure from THE BOY to do it, and I finally said okay.
[ ] It was forced on me. The boy made me do it.
[X] My first time, it was planned we were gonna do it.
[ ] My first time, I wasn't planning on doing it. It just happened and I wanted to do it.
[ ] OTHER REASONS:

[ X ] I ENJOYED IT that first time.
[ ] I had an orgasm that first time having sex.
[X] IT HURT that first time.
[ ] I DID NOT enjoy it that first time (but not because it hurt)

[ ] The boy came real quick.
[ ] The boy took way too long!
[ ] The boy COULDN'T FINISH (Lost his erection, or just couldn't climax.)
[X] It lasted just about as long as I wanted it to.

[boyfromthesouth]

wow have no girls had an orgasm their first time

[scott2002]

wow have no girls had an orgasm their first time
Maybe because of something that it seems a lot of girls did check off: It HURT that first time. (Most also checked off that the boy came real fast, too. That would have something to do with it, too.)
I REALLY THANK ALL THE GIRLS THAT HAVE ANSWERED THIS. FOR US BOYS, IT'S REALLY HELPFUL TO KNOW AND UNDERSTAND THESE THINGS.

[Theekshana]

wow have no girls had an orgasm their first time

its not as easy as it is for you guys. there's so much pressure involved in it. and the pain. besides, some girls don't orgasm at all from just having sex.

[KarmenP]

[X] I really wanted to do it, to experience it.
[ ] I just felt it was time to do it.
[ ] Pressure from other GIRLS to do it.
[ ] Pressure from THE BOY to do it, and I finally said okay.
[ ] It was forced on me. The boy made me do it.
[X] My first time, it was planned we were gonna do it.
[ ] My first time, I wasn't planning on doing it. It just happened and I wanted to do it.
[ ] OTHER REASONS:

[X] I ENJOYED IT that first time.
[X] I had an orgasm that first time having sex.
[X] IT HURT that first time.
[ ] I DID NOT enjoy it that first time (but not because it hurt)

[ ] The boy came real quick.
[ ] The boy took way too long!
[ ] The boy COULDN'T FINISH (Lost his erection, or just couldn't climax.)
[X] It lasted just about as long as I wanted it to.

[KarmenP]

[X] I really wanted to do it, to experience it.
[ ] I just felt it was time to do it.
[ ] Pressure from other GIRLS to do it.
[ ] Pressure from THE BOY to do it, and I finally said okay.
[ ] It was forced on me. The boy made me do it.
[X] My first time, it was planned we were gonna do it.
[ ] My first time, I wasn't planning on doing it. It just happened and I wanted to do it.
[ ] OTHER REASONS:

[X] I ENJOYED IT that first time.
[X] I had an orgasm that first time having sex.
[X] IT HURT that first time.
[ ] I DID NOT enjoy it that first time (but not because it hurt)

[ ] The boy came real quick.
[ ] The boy took way too long!
[ ] The boy COULDN'T FINISH (Lost his erection, or just couldn't climax.)
[X] It lasted just about as long as I wanted it to.

[nklarke]

[X]

[X] I ENJOYED IT that first time.
[X] I had an orgasm that first time having sex.
[X] IT HURT that first time..

Interesting ... so you enjoyed even if it hurt you.

[KarmenP]

Interesting ... so you enjoyed even if it hurt you.
Yea it hurt at first but as it went on I enjoyed it.

[aneta]

Interesting ... so you enjoyed even if it hurt you.

I enjoyed it too. Of course it wold be much better without pain during sex, but first sex was fot me realy big emotionaly experience.

[X] I really wanted to do it, to experience it.
[ ] I just felt it was time to do it.
[ ] Pressure from other GIRLS to do it.
[ ] Pressure from THE BOY to do it, and I finally said okay.
[ ] It was forced on me. The boy made me do it.
[X] My first time, it was planned we were gonna do it.
[ ] My first time, I wasn't planning on doing it. It just happened and I wanted to do it.
[ ] OTHER REASONS:

[X] I ENJOYED IT that first time.
[ ] I had an orgasm that first time having sex.
[X] IT HURT that first time.
[ ] I DID NOT enjoy it that first time (but not because it hurt)

[X] The boy came real quick.
[ ] The boy took way too long!
[ ] The boy COULDN'T FINISH (Lost his erection, or just couldn't climax.)
[ ] It lasted just about as long as I wanted it to.

[geanyna]

[X] I really wanted to do it, to experience it.
[X] I just felt it was time to do it.
[ ] Pressure from other GIRLS to do it.
[ ] Pressure from THE BOY to do it, and I finally said okay.
[ ] It was forced on me. The boy made me do it.
[ ] My first time, it was planned we were gonna do it.
[ ] My first time, I wasn't planning on doing it. It just happened and I wanted to do it.
[ ] OTHER REASONS:

[X] I ENJOYED IT that first time.
[ ] I had an orgasm that first time having sex.
[X] IT HURT that first time.
[ ] I DID NOT enjoy it that first time (but not because it hurt)

[ ] The boy came real quick.
[ ] The boy took way too long!
[ ] The boy COULDN'T FINISH (Lost his erection, or just couldn't climax.)
[X] It lasted just about as long as I wanted it to.

[Anna Kadlecova]

[ x] I really wanted to do it, to experience it.
[ x] I just felt it was time to do it.
[ ] Pressure from other GIRLS to do it.
[ ] Pressure from THE BOY to do it, and I finally said okay.
[ ] It was forced on me. The boy made me do it.
[x ] My first time, it was planned we were gonna do it.
[ ] My first time, I wasn't planning on doing it. It just happened and I wanted to do it.
[ ] OTHER REASONS:

[x ] I ENJOYED IT that first time.
[ ] I had an orgasm that first time having sex.
[ ] IT HURT that first time.
[ ] I DID NOT enjoy it that first time (but not because it hurt)

[ ] The boy came real quick.
[ ] The boy took way too long!
[ ] The boy COULDN'T FINISH (Lost his erection, or just couldn't climax.)
[x ] It lasted just about as long as I wanted it to.

[livia_cute]

[ ] I really wanted to do it, to experience it.
[ ] I just felt it was time to do it.
[ ] Pressure from other GIRLS to do it.
[x] Pressure from THE BOY to do it, and I finally said okay.
[ ] It was forced on me. The boy made me do it.
[ ] My first time, it was planned we were gonna do it.
[ ] My first time, I wasn't planning on doing it. It just happened and I wanted to do it.
[ ] OTHER REASONS:

[ ] I ENJOYED IT that first time.
[ ] I had an orgasm that first time having sex.
[x] IT HURT that first time.
[ ] I DID NOT enjoy it that first time (but not because it hurt)

[ ] The boy came real quick.
[x] The boy took way too long!
[ ] The boy COULDN'T FINISH (Lost his erection, or just couldn't climax.)
[ ] It lasted just about as long as I wanted it to.

[Atlantis]

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