Is this wrong?

[Perc.man_1]

Hey. This is my first post so I'm so excited! Okay so I am a straight freshmen guy, that has a gf. Well there's this guy in my class that is "straight" but even people that don't know him thinks he's gay because of how he acts. He has asked me to touch him "there" because he "doesn't have boundaries" . He has also asked me if he could touch me. I say no. I have been trying to get him to spend the night so we can maybe experiment. He said if I ever wanted to compare or experiment, just call him. I don't know if he is hinting or what. Is it wrong that I want to experiment with him? Sorry if this is story telling.

[ashdaniel]

Hey bud, you are 14 yrs old. It totally fine to experience with him. People in college experience stuff too. You are totally fine.

[refrigeratorx]

Not wrong to do but only do if u want to. But it doesn't change ur sexuality or anything no worries about that

[scott2002]

This is my advice, and my caution. It sounds like you've never done anything like this with another guy before. I would definitely recommend you go ahead and experiment, because it sounds like he's asking and you want to. Make sure you have total privacy, and aren't rushed. A sleepover is best, in my own experience.
Start slow. Just show each other what you got down there. (You'll both will either already be hard, or you soon will be.)
Don't be forced or talked into doing anything you don't want to do, and don't put him in the same position either.
I bet you'll probably end up both jacking off together. Once you both cum, you might all of a sudden feel REALLY WEIRD or embarrassed for what you just ended up doing. I don't know why that happens, but many times it does after the first time with someone. And, the next time you see him, like in school, that might feel real awkward, too.
But, this might be the start of a very special friendship, and it's definitely worth the experiment. Go for it!

[Straya]

i agree with scott there was some good advice in there and if your comfortable and feel like you wanna do then go right ahead. it is alot of fun

[Big O]

Perfectly natural man everyone goes through experiemental and bicurious times during puberty. You'll either get over it or realize that maybe you like guys

[Tyler97]

It's wrong especially at your age, wait until you're at least 18, then that would be more appropriate.

[bojack]

It's wrong especially at your age, wait until you're at least 18, then that would be more appropriate.

How is it wrong? its experimenting with your sexuality, which is common at that age

[DocMcLovins]

Sounds like you are bi curious. I would be careful. Your feelings may change or you could do it and regret it. Especially think thru if he would tell others or if he is setting you up for a trap and you get to his house and get naked and other dudes jump out of nowhere and laugh at you. this actually happened at my school. But sounds like it's not like that cuz sounds like he has acted like this for a while. But if you think it thru and still wanna do it then go for it i guess.

[Dmaxd123]

i wouldn't yet unless you REALLY know the guy

i've seen things like that go both ways and 2 years later the other person is a real jerk and tells everyone that you tried to get him to do XYZ even though they were the one that suggested it.

luckily I haven't been through it but a few friends did. i'd say wait a while and see if you REALLY want to or if you're just curious

[zzzzzzzzzz]

It's quite normal to be curious, and there's been a lot of good advice. It partly depends on how much you trust him and how far you want to go too. Would it be a one off, or would it continue too?

[jamie_n5]

There would be nothing wrong with experimenting. It is a normal thing that most guys and girls do. It sounds like your friend just may be gay or bi also but most straight guys experiment too.

[Agent X]

I totally get wanting to experiment, but, having a gf, this would not be the time. I feel like if word got out somehow, she would not be happy with you. I understand experimenting, and think it's perfectly natural, but I wouldn't do it if you have a gf.

[Coolteenboy]

This is my advice, and my caution. It sounds like you've never done anything like this with another guy before. I would definitely recommend you go ahead and experiment, because it sounds like he's asking and you want to. Make sure you have total privacy, and aren't rushed. A sleepover is best, in my own experience.
Start slow. Just show each other what you got down there. (You'll both will either already be hard, or you soon will be.)
Don't be forced or talked into doing anything you don't want to do, and don't put him in the same position either.
I bet you'll probably end up both jacking off together. Once you both cum, you might all of a sudden feel REALLY WEIRD or embarrassed for what you just ended up doing. I don't know why that happens, but many times it does after the first time with someone. And, the next time you see him, like in school, that might feel real awkward, too.
But, this might be the start of a very special friendship, and it's definitely worth the experiment. Go for it!

I so totally agree with about the above. My best friend and I agreed to start messing around and we called it experimenting for when we were with girls. To be honest the first day or so after the first time was a little awkward. But we just continue to about our business and kept our friendship alive. When we both sat down to talk and admitted that we both wanted to do it and it both felt really good for us and that we both definitely wanted to do it again all the weirdness one away. In the end it brought our friendship so much closer and we have become so much better friends knowing that we can share something special. My advice, absolutely go for it.

[scott2002]

In the end it brought our friendship so much closer and we have become so much better friends knowing that we can share something special. My advice, absolutely go for it.
I'll totally agree. It's a special bond between the two guys. My closest friends in middle school were also my jerk-off buddies.