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Shaundi
February 25th, 2014, 01:58 PM
Lately.. i'm very sad, i'm hardly finding happiness in life at all, i've been gazing at everyone on the street, in the park, the lovely couples who love eachother, the old couples, still loving eachother, when i think of myself and knowing that no-one will love me at all, the big happiness i had when i had a girlfriend for a very short amount of time, she dumped be and i'm still sad to this very day, i'm losing friends, people hit me and i'm bullied. The only thing that gives me happiness is love, and the fact that i will never get it, i'm really on the point of a suicide.

Living For Love
February 25th, 2014, 02:51 PM
It will get better, believe me. I'm more a less in a situation similar to yours, and I've been like that for a lot of time, and I'm still here. (: If your main problem is getting in a relationship, I'm sure there's someone out there for you, who will love you the way you are, who will make you really happy. You need to be patient. Everyone's lives has its ups and downs, we all go through that, but it will get better. And please, don't do anything rash.

Karkat
February 25th, 2014, 03:04 PM
I was in that position for a long time as well. Try making friends, or growing closer to the ones you have. Give yourself a little support group! It's much easier to cope that way.

You're still young, you'll find a relationship soon enough. Besides, the ones that really matter will feel the best to be in to begin with. I can hardly think of a better feeling than loving someone and feeling loved. And it might not happen to you right away, but that's ok. I think everyone your age feels that way. I did, and now I have a wonderful boyfriend. (three years after I was your age, so don't worry too much ;) )

Just try to hang in there, make sure you don't neglect any hobbies you might have, and remember to love yourself as well. That's really one of the best things you can do for yourself, is to figure out who you are in the meantime. You, and whoever you find will be all the better for it when the time comes.

And remember that we're here to listen as well! Good luck! :)

blarg2011
February 25th, 2014, 04:23 PM
take it easy bro... i think u r too young to be thinking about love and relationships like that... 1 special person will come u'll see...

ChoiceScarf
February 26th, 2014, 04:00 PM
Just remember you are not alone, there are many people (probably a lot of those around you) you feel the same way. A lot of people put on a brave face, and take it out on people who are "easy targets". All I can say, as others have said it does get better just try to find a hobbie that you enjoy, perhaps try to join a club? I did martial arts because it was really out of my comfort zone and I wanted to learn how to stop people from bullying me, in the begging it is hard and not many people talked to me as I had nothing to say, but we always had one thing to talk about which was martial arts and eventually after a couple weeks conversations drifted into other thing and I made some friends. So I suggest that could help.

Similarly, bullying is never okay and people should know what is happening, you are going to be fine, just don't let life get you down, take life down first. You are also probably going through a depression, and that can make you feel even more alone and isolated, as you don't know how or even want to talk to people. Take things step by step, focus on what you need and want!

John566
February 27th, 2014, 07:32 AM
Dude you're 13. Chill out. You don't need to be worrying about these things now :)