How to deal with cropped up anger and sadness?

[CabbageMedul]

Hey everyone. I don't want to repeat this story for the millionth time, so I'll try to sum it up a bit...

Basically, There was this guy. We liked each other. I introduced him to my best friend, and then he shoves me aside like dirt, and falls in love with her.
She kinda likes him too. We've had heavy discussions so far. It turns out he's been scared of me ever since we had a fight, yet he never told me anything.
I'm extremely upset by this, mostly because I'm overprotective and kind of possessive, and honestly, I'd like to date my friend at some point, or at least try. He has horrible traits that ruin everything. She has yet to discover that.
He lives in Estonia. My friend thinks I'm overreacting, but this really hurts me. I feel cheated on, and lied to.
I don't blame my friend though. It's all that guy's fault. He ruined things for all of us.

I'm very angry, and upset about this... I don't know how to take out my anger, and sadness until this blows over, or I fix it.

I haven't been sleeping well either, and I can't get myself to cry.
What do I do? I'm stumped, and torn apart! :confused:

[Croconaw]

You can try to take your mind off things for a while. I don't understand why this guy would be scared of you. It just seems quite weird, because you didn't do anything.

[henry5331]

Hey everyone. I don't want to repeat this story for the millionth time, so I'll try to sum it up a bit...

Basically, There was this guy. We liked each other. I introduced him to my best friend, and then he shoves me aside like dirt, and falls in love with her.
She kinda likes him too. We've had heavy discussions so far. It turns out he's been scared of me ever since we had a fight, yet he never told me anything.
I'm extremely upset by this, mostly because I'm overprotective and kind of possessive, and honestly, I'd like to date my friend at some point, or at least try. He has horrible traits that ruin everything. She has yet to discover that.
He lives in Estonia. My friend thinks I'm overreacting, but this really hurts me. I feel cheated on, and lied to.
I don't blame my friend though. It's all that guy's fault. He ruined things for all of us.

I'm very angry, and upset about this... I don't know how to take out my anger, and sadness until this blows over, or I fix it.

I haven't been sleeping well either, and I can't get myself to cry.
What do I do? I'm stumped, and torn apart! :confused:

You need to talk to someone about this. Parent, counselor, pastor, someone.

[Sirgarett]

First of all, I think that he's just telling you about how he's scared of you just to make up some pathetic excuse to be able to distance himself to you, seeing the fact that he has already "fallen" in love with your best friend. Well personally, I think that what's best for you to do atm is to put some distance between you and him and hopefully you'll figure something out in the process. Good luck

[Living For Love]

Please don't bump old threads. :locked: