Wet after being spanked?

[cheergurl]

Hi all, been a long time since I've posted but I wasn't sure where else to go. I'm asking for a friend of mine who is a neighbor. She's 13 and spanking is normal in their household as punishment, always has been. There's nothing that indicates that the parents are abusive at all or sexual with the children. They all get along really well and the dad seems really sweet to me and the dad and her have a really good relationship. One night recently she was spending the night and we were talking about the birds and the bees and masturbation and all that and when we talked about being wet, she mentioned that she gets like that after her dad spanks her but she didn't know why. It adds to the humiliation and embarrassment she already feels so she asked me why it happens and I wasn't sure. My gut feeling is... well I've read that women can get wet or even cum when they're raped... their body responds even if they're not mentally into it at all. I'm wondering if that's what's going on. Like it or not it's definitely arousing her physically, she admitted she goes back to her room and almost always masturbates afterwards. She did say that her dad does bare butt spankings and often hits the back of her thighs, which leads to sometimes hitting her pussy if her legs are open enough. Other than that though there's no sign that he ever touches her inappropriately, I asked her several times.
Does anyone else have this experience? Do you think it's like how women's bodies react when being raped, her body is actually reacting sexually to the spanking, or could it be more of a repressed daddy crush I know some of us get for a little while in our teens.
She was pretty embarrassed talking about it and got pretty red but she also got wet talking about it and we ended up masturbating together.
Thoughts?

[amelia_]

Its normal for her body to respond like that, i think. seems like shes at the age where that starts to happen. Nothing to be ashamed of but maybe her dad shouldn't do that if its not appropriate for her.

[becca07]

The spanking might be making her aroused due the situation...spanking being a dominate act- so its psychological arousal which then causes the body to react. It may not make sense but the spanking is tapping into a very primal part of our brain and hard-wiring that is still with us today. For some of us..we may respond differently. For me i have gotten aroused if i guy spanks my butt..when i was younger and got spanked from my dad there were some occasions where i got aroused a tiny bit...and was confused.

For your friend...it might affect her differently...thus her getting so aroused that she feels an urgent need to find privacy and masturbate to relieve the arousal which must be sudden and strong.

[pconnor]

We get spanked bare too. But we are boys. Don't know if anything is different when girls are spanked.

[angelina]

It seems that she is being suddenly aroused on spanking and she needs mbating to give a vent to her arousal .If she doesn't like that she can appropriately tell about her physical condition and confusion to her mom. Nothing will be solved by hiding the fact.

[amelia_]

It seems that she is being suddenly aroused on spanking and she needs mbating to give a vent to her arousal .If she doesn't like that she can appropriately tell about her physical condition and confusion to her mom. Nothing will be solved by hiding the fact.

I agree, having her tell her mom will let her handle it in case its embarrassing to talk to her dad about

[angelina]

We get spanked bare too. But we are boys. Don't know if anything is different when girls are spanked.
Sorry pconnor..How can you reply to this Girls only forum?
If it is by oversight it is OK...other wise do not repeat this mistake again.

[becca07]

It seems that she is being suddenly aroused on spanking and she needs mbating to give a vent to her arousal .If she doesn't like that she can appropriately tell about her physical condition and confusion to her mom. Nothing will be solved by hiding the fact.

Well said...this makes the most sense.

[veroda]

Im not judging but being spanked or such doesnt put me into that mood...

[GothSwimmer]

Seems a bit weird and unlikely to me. If he's touching a teen girl's ass, isn't it sexual assault?

[Living For Love]

This is not appropriate. :locked: