Why is anal sex with a girl weird?

[Ffdp16]

I'm just wondering. Like I brought it up with my ex and totally freaked out about it refused to do it. I like girls and I like bottoming with anal sex I like being on top anal or vaginal but I'm kind of versatile. With guys it's like a fetish I don't really like the male physique it's just the penis. And I hate going on top with a guy the male butt looks so boring like mine. Anyhow why is it so horrifically odd to want anal stimulation from a girl? Why did my ex act like I asked her to kill me?

[Karkat]

I didn't like the idea at all at first, mostly because I'm germophobic to some extent and ew

Sex is kind of gross enough without that factor.

Most girls just don't fetishize the butt, they see it as a butt. They know what goes on down there XD

I think it's just a mind over matter thing.

[Ffdp16]

My ex knew I was a clean freak. She also grabbed my ass a lot when we had sex well you know like pressing or whatever. I thought that she'd be ok with it but apparantly not thanks for your perspective.

[Curious.kid]

I'm not sure. But I don't think I'd want to put my penis in there. I think it's gross.

[ninja789]

it is also an incredible amount of pain to go through

[Ffdp16]

I was talking about receiving. For me personally it doesn't hurt. I just enjoy it but I think I'd enjoy it more with a girl but I get the feeling that this is seemingly too taboo.

[Daniella98]

It doesnt have to be painful.
Some girls just cant see how anal can be nice. So they think its gross and praying their boyfriend wont bring it up. And when he does, they act out of panic and make it look like he is the wrong one: ''OH NO!! Tell me you are not one of them!!''
I know because some of me friends are like that.
There is nothing wrong with you for asking her about it. Im sorry she doesnt want to.
I hope you one day will try it eventually :-)

[Karkat]

it is also an incredible amount of pain to go through

Like normal sex, if it's painful, you're doing it wrong. :/

I was talking about receiving. For me personally it doesn't hurt. I just enjoy it but I think I'd enjoy it more with a girl but I get the feeling that this is seemingly too taboo.

Ahh, some girls don't like the idea of pegging their boyfriends.

I personally would not mind at all if my boyfriend wanted me to peg him, but I don't think he'd even be open to that, haha

[ninja789]

Like normal sex, if it's painful, you're doing it wrong. :/



Ahh, some girls don't like the idea of pegging their boyfriends.

I personally would not mind at all if my boyfriend wanted me to peg him, but I don't think he'd even be open to that, haha

it is difficult to get right the first time lol

[Karkat]

it is difficult to get right the first time lol

That's definitely true, haha.

You've got to use a lot of lube, and then some more!

[ninja789]

see I didn't know that at all so my first like 4 times were horrid

[Karkat]

see I didn't know that at all so my first like 4 times were horrid

Uh-oh. I bet.

Yeah, the anus doesn't lubricate itself naturally, so you need to get it lubed up somehow before anyone (or thing) goes in. Otherwise, it could actually cause damage. Good thing you know now!

[ninja789]

Uh-oh. I bet.

Yeah, the anus doesn't lubricate itself naturally, so you need to get it lubed up somehow before anyone (or thing) goes in. Otherwise, it could actually cause damage. Good thing you know now!

very good ;)

[Tyler97]

It's painful for the girl and some guys may find it gross to put their penis where poop has been. The anus is meant for elimination of food waste and not sex.

[Ffdp16]

It's painful for the girl and some guys may find it gross to put their penis where poop has been. The anus is meant for elimination of food waste and not sex.

I was actually talking about her fucking me not the other way around.

But I actually like anal sex with a girl being on top I like the look of a girl's butt more than the pussy anyhow even though both are fine.