which way should i go?

[Jason The Great]

Hey guys, i try to keep it as short as possible :

So, im half through college, and i fell in love with my friend and classmate. She's nice and pretty, and i was thinking about marrying her after college. But things changed when i decided to change my major from civil engineering to software engineering and i cant be with her anymore cause i have to move to another city and i might stay there for too long and miss my chance with her. I love her but i also love new major,becasue its my dream. I dont know what to do.

What do u think guys?

Sorry for bad english tho :)

[Just JT]

If your already in a relationship with her, then talk to her about it.
Is where you'd need to move to so far away that you couldn't still see each Other like daily or are you moving to another City in another state or something?

[Jason The Great]

If your already in a relationship with her, then talk to her about it.
Is where you'd need to move to so far away that you couldn't still see each Other like daily or are you moving to another City in another state or something?

No we arent in relationship, but we can be:D
Ill be going to another country and live there for the rest of my life.

[Just JT]

That's complicated then. And she has no idea you have feelings for her?
If so, it's unfair to her to start only to move away, especially if you know that.

Does she have feelings for you?

I'd at least talk with her and find out where she's at with all this

[camille78]

Does she know you have feelings for her?
I think you should talk with her.

[ClaraWho]

Hey guys, i try to keep it as short as possible :

So, im half through college, and i fell in love with my friend and classmate. She's nice and pretty, and i was thinking about marrying her after college. But things changed when i decided to change my major from civil engineering to software engineering and i cant be with her anymore cause i have to move to another city and i might stay there for too long and miss my chance with her. I love her but i also love new major,becasue its my dream. I dont know what to do.

What do u think guys?

Sorry for bad english tho :)

Dude you aren't even dating her and already you're planning to get married to her after college?!

Slow the heck down!!

You seem to have bypassed the entire 'getting to know each other' stage. Why on earth would she marry you like that? Is she that desperate that you can safely assume you'd be the only person she'd end up being with? At least show her a modicum of respect :/. Damn.

You say you aren't dating, are you close friends? Do you spend all your free time together?

'Nice and pretty' is how you describe an outfit, not someone you claim to love to the point of spending your life together.

If it is meant to be, then distance shouldn't be a barrier. Given how you framed this, maybe some distance might be a good thing to give you perspective.

~ Clara