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jombo
February 24th, 2014, 06:16 PM
Just a bit of backstory.

I came across her on a social media site in August and from December onwards we were speaking privately on Skype. I've never been sure of how she has felt, but part of me was feeling jealous when someone else was talking to her and all the other signs. I thought she just wanted to be friends and that I just had a crush, but she started to say things like this:

"somehow talking with you makes me feel really really better"
"you always make me feel better"
"I can't be happy if you're not happy"

I have no idea what she means by this. Does she mean she sees me as more than a friend? I have said stuff like that to other people that I'm not in love with but over the internet? And considering she's actually a secluded person with her emotions it's odd. Is she just a really caring and close friend or what?
I know we're very close friends, and I'm happy with that as long as I get to talk to her, but it's just confusion to how she feels, mainly. I wouldn't want to openly confess and make all future conversations awkward. Talking to her makes my days happier, and making her feel better when she feels bad is a fantastic feeling, but what do I do/does she like me?

Ehh?

no one?

:/ nothing?

Silver700
February 28th, 2014, 09:11 PM
Well, what I would do if I were you, I wouldn't say anything but watch her actions carefully. Does she seem nervous sometimes around you? Blush? Stutters sometimes? If you do see some of these things she may like you. If you don't see any of these things or maybe like one or two, she may only see you as a friend but maybe not, some girl's are good at hiding their feelings. Good luck for the future.

jombo
March 1st, 2014, 10:02 AM
Well, what I would do if I were you, I wouldn't say anything but watch her actions carefully. Does she seem nervous sometimes around you? Blush? Stutters sometimes? If you do see some of these things she may like you. If you don't see any of these things or maybe like one or two, she may only see you as a friend but maybe not, some girl's are good at hiding their feelings. Good luck for the future.

We're 5000+ miles away from each other.

Emerald Dream
March 1st, 2014, 11:42 AM
I'm not sure she sees you as more than a friend, but it is definitely worth seeing if there is more there. From what you have said, it looks like the two of you feel comfortable in a friendly relationship where you are dependent on each other's understanding. That's definitely something to build on in a possible relationship.