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smash_melee_player
March 10th, 2017, 03:22 PM
There is this girl that I like a lot. I like her so much. We have been close since late October. For a long while now I have wanted to ask her out. I don't believe that anything would make me happier, but I can't do it. It's not a fear of rejection. I have been told by a mutual friend that she is literally waiting for me to ask her out. She has also kinda said that she likes me as well (that's another story, but that was the gist of the conversation). It has also come up many times that I like her, so she 100% knows. She has also been dropping hints for a while now that she wants me to ask her out. I want to ask her out so much, but I can't. I know what I'm supposed to say. I'm fairly certain she would say yes. I don't believe I'm afraid of anything. I just can't physically ask her out. It is like there is a switch in my brain turned off so I can't do it. It literally just won't come out of me. I can tell her how I feel about her and I've done that many times, but something inside me just won't allow me to ask the question. I have been beating myself up for this for so long. My inability to ask her out has made me question whether I'm good enough. It has made me think that maybe she deserves more than me if I don't have the guts to ask her out. What is my problem and what do I do???

ska8er
March 10th, 2017, 04:10 PM
U have self doubts which r crazy. The two
of u know each other and want to go out.
Its not like u r trying to ask a girl who is a
stranger and u r scared she is going to reject
u. So ask her before she changes her mind.

Just JT
March 10th, 2017, 04:10 PM
Show her this post.
Or write a poem with these thoughts, and hand it to her
If you can't hand it to her, slip it into her locker or bag or backpack or something

Let us know how you make out

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