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henners
March 9th, 2017, 02:06 PM
Ok... so last year I posted about this girl multiple times seeing how I should ask her out, but I still havent. Just to set the scene, we're both 15, in many of the same classes and neither of us have ever had a boyfriend or girlfriend, and at one point we talked about crushes and she told me she'd tell me her's if I told her mine, but I didn't want to tell her that she was my crush, incase she didn't feel the same way. We chat pretty much every night, for hours, from like 9 until half 11 sometimes even into the next day. We get along really well and from what i can tell we seem to be very similar. We've chatted like this for maybe a year now,but in person at school we very rarely talk to each other. For me its out of embarrassment because I think my mates well take the piss out of me, but I don't know what it is to her. I think she's beautiful and I'd love to spend more time with her, but I don't really know what she thinks of me. I'm in year 10, and next spring we have our spring ball. I'd love to take her, but I don't know when to ask her, our even if she'd want to go with me. Also I find our friendship very important, so I really wouldn't wasn't to lose it. Thanks for reading through all of that, and if there's any questions you think would help, I'd happily answer. Thank you

Oh yes, and some of her friend went on her phone and saw our conversion, so I don't really know what to do about that. We never talk about stuff that is super secret or anything, but it's a bit embarrassing.

mick01
March 9th, 2017, 02:23 PM
The only way to find out if she is interested in you, or getting to know you further, requires you taking a little bit of a risk. And that's just asking her if she'd like to go out and get coffee or ice cream or whatever. Just tell her that you really enjoy talking to her and that you'd like to get to know her better out of school.
And you can't let what your mates think or do to stop you from being with someone it seems you'd really love to be with. When they see you with her, they'll probably be jealous lol.

henners
March 9th, 2017, 04:33 PM
Yeah, it just makes me so nervous, even thinking about it, the thought of going on a date with someone...
Like if people I know see me what will they think etc...
Would I be better off trying to ask her out before the spring ball, or ask her to it, kinda killing two birds with one stone?

ska8er
March 9th, 2017, 05:22 PM
Since u chatted over a year now-the
two of u must know a bit about each
other even tho u don't talk at school.
Seems like u can b close online but
not in person-but ask her that the
dance is coming up and u would like
to go and is she comfortable of going
also. U will never know if u don't ask.
If u cant ask in person bring it up in
chat.

henners
March 9th, 2017, 05:30 PM
Hmm.. Yeah, if it comes up I can always mention it then...