Advice

[Croconaw]

Welp, my girlfriend sent me this:

Her: "(My name), you're a very sweet person and I do care about you. I just realized (my name) for about two weeks now that I'm just not ready for a relationship I'm so so sorry I hope you understand, I do still care about you and want you in my life but I really am sorry I don't want you to hurt yourself please relax everything will be okay. I will be in your life still if you want me to be. I hope you'll be understanding after you read this. Please realize this is for the best, I know we been fighting lately too and that hasn't helped the situation at all even though we are both very sorry and forgave each other. I honestly am still hurt by some of the things you have told me please forgive me for what I said though cuz I really am sorry and I know you're sorry too but I think I'm still very hurt by it. I'm so sorry. I just am not ready for a relationship I still care about you though and want you in my life"

And I asked her if she'd date me again in the future, and:

Her: "Time will tell. Just relax though please. There's still a chance I'll consider dating you in the future again. I just am not ready for a relationship right now with anyone. I'm not even gonna try looking for anyone right now. And I really haven't developed feelings for anyone else while we been dating since November"

She said she'd consider dating me again when she's ready. She said maybe in July or August at the earliest. Now I'm in a depression sort of and I hope I can get out of it. I asked her if we'd still be dating if we didn't get into as many fights and she said she doesn't know.

Her: "You're welcome and I'm not sure honestly I'm sorry "

A part of me says she didn't want to hurt my feelings... another part says she honestly doesn't know. Either way, this is upsetting me bad. I still have feelings for her, so I hope she's ready to date again soon... and that she'll consider me again. I'm not sure what I'm asking. :( I just want to know if she really thinks she's not ready for a relationship, or if she didn't want to hurt my feelings any more by telling the truth.

I still love this girl. :(

Thank you for any advice. I appreciate any help because I'm of sure how to take these messages.

[Croconaw]

ignore this comment I'm sorry

[Uniquemind]

Wait, ignore the OP or the secondary double post?

If indeed you still want advice, I recommend just staying busy. Maybe find details about yourself introspectively that if you're given a second chance, fix the problems you had the first attempt around at a relationship.


All ends hold the potential for new beginnings.

If I misunderstood, then kindly just disregard my post here if you want to be ignored.

[Croconaw]

I meant ignore the comment, it double posted by accident. Thank you for the advice. She has given me a second chance without telling me I assume, and that's because she refers to me as her girlfriend still, and then giggles after she says it.