I just dont know what now

[TaCoonaBiKe]

Hi. So. Im 15, and me and my good friend met these 2 girls (another friend of ours who moved away showed them to us, i should also say they live in a different state in europe then us) basically.. weve became friends and few days later we are dating... except theres is this problem which i am super freaked about and she is scared so: she told me she gets emotional when her ex still messages her, she feels like shes about to cry and also told me she went to the hospital because of her bullimia, i think u pronouce it, and she pukes and smokes because of him.. and thats why im totally fuked last days, i just dont know what to do... if she does anything "crazy" could i get problems too? Like from cops or parents i guess? She still cant believe he left her. She hopes one day he will text her saying he loves her, but then what am i gonna do?
He dumped her on the new years eve, and now he is just a fuckboy, drinks, smokes etc. I need help please. And sorry for my english and mistakes ive broken my leg today and im still shaky, and then english in not my primary language

[ethan-s]

The thing I've learned about ex's from just trolling around the internet is that she you break up, you must cut off all contact. No texting, no email, heck you might as well change your phone number.

Needless to say, breakups suck. I know things even though I've never had the pleasure of actually breaking up...

[Phosphene]

If she's constantly worried about her ex and gets so emotional over him, I don't think she's ready for another relationship. It would be best if you just stayed friends imo.

[Mrstealyourgirl11]

tbh bruhh I went though some stuff like this but I think u should break up wit her because for 1 you can't see her 2 she might cheat and 3 she can do something crazy like example try to hurt her self or even talk to u about her hurting herself if it happens the cops will come to u and ask questions its a lot of girls in the ocean fam don't let her drag u down with her and she didn't move on so u should cause what if he text her in be like baby I love u I messed up will u take me back then what she gone leave u and u gone be hurt but good luck bro

[Stronk Serb]

Do not pursue any relationship with her. She is currently a wreck and only she can deal with that. Remember when I dumped my ex for cheating on me, I was a wreck for four months. I didn't pursue any relationships during that time because, well, I didn't want to hurt anyone.

[ska8er]

I think for now u can let her open up
to u and b her friend but I wouldn't get
into any kind of serious relationship with
her til she gets her life and feelings together.

[TaCoonaBiKe]

But im just scared ill hurt her more.. holly god this is hard

[ClaraWho]

But im just scared ill hurt her more.. holly god this is hard

It is quite simple really. Break-up by saying she clearly isn't over her ex partner, say you can remain friends but she needs to work through her issues. If she tries to put too much on you in terms of her problems, it is okay to say you don't know how to help, and to suggest she seeks help from an adult such as a therapist. Don't imply she is 'crazy', just that a therapist has experience and training to help whereas you don't.

~ Clara

N.B. This is why it is best to become friends PRIOR to getting into a relationship, which means more than meeting a few times.

[TaCoonaBiKe]

Well, she txted me saying her ex said he wants her bak and is sorry for what has happened.. and thats when our conversation ended so im not rly sure what has happened.. why is it just my luck i always end up with sad girls, not to offend.. thanks everyone btw