Erections and wet dreams

[Brightwolf]

Ok so I've been getting more random boners lately, is that normal? Also, last night, i woke up randomly and had a wet spot on my boxers, it wasn't semen i don't think, because it was not sticky, and it wasn't pee, i know that. Is it possible it could've been precum? The thing is, I don't make a lot of precum, if any. Have any of you experienced this and what did you do? Also, I wasn't dreaming at the time and I didn't feel any orgasm, or if I was dreaming, I couldn't remember it.

[The captain]

sure dude...was precum...happened to me all the time when I get erections

[Brightwolf]

sure dude...was precum...happened to me all the time when I get erections

Good, I thought i broke something lol

[The captain]

Good, I thought i broke something lol

not at all dude lol

[Hermes]

Random boners are a normal part of puberty.

Regarding the wet spot remember that semen gets thinner a short time after having been ejaculated so the fact it is thin rather than stickly doesn't automatically mean it is pre-cum rather than semen so this could be a wet dream. On the other hand the chance of getting visible pre-cum increases you longer you spend aroused. Guys often reporting getting noticably more of it when making out for ages without going any further. So if you don't normally spend a long time aroused before finally cumming then it's still possible this could be pre-cum.

One way of the other it does seem likely you had a dream that had you aroused even if you can't remember it. You only remember a dream if you wake up during that dream - if the dream finishes without waking you generally don't remember.

As to what do next, I don't think there is any right or wrong. If the wet spot bothers you, you can change your underwear, if it doesn't you needn't bother. If you're horny you can j/o, if you're not you can go back to sleep.

I wouldn't worry too much about whether this was a wet dream or not - some guys get them and some don't and it isn't any kind of right of passage or development milestone like sex education has sometimes suggest. The development milestone is becoming able to ejaculate and whether than happens from masturbation or a wet dream really doesn't matter.

[TWDjacob]

i think it was only precut. I've only ever had sexual dreams but I've never had a wet dream

[niklas]

Definitely sounds like precum. Even when I don't wet dream, I know during dreams and stuff you get erections and if the dream makes you horny you can definitely leak precum into your underwear or whatever you sleep in. Have had some fairly big wet patches on mine.

[teenboyNathan]

It was probably precum

[pconnor]

Mots likely pre-cum.

[BrendonOH]

I don't make a lot of precum (yet?) either but it sounds like that's what it was. was it watery and slippery-feeling?

[Falcons_11]

In all probability it's pre-cum.

[tyrickd]

it was precum it must've been a great dream lol

[Brightwolf]

it was precum it must've been a great dream lol

lol and I don't even remember it! ;)

[Cassius16]

Most of the time when I wake up from a wet dream I have an erection having just recently ejaculated. Other times wake up wet and I'm soft (I don't know if that means I ejaculated while I was soft or if I became soft since.. I don't know it's even possible to ejaculate while not erect). I get a lot of precum throughout the day though, so the times I wake up soft but still wet, it might have been precum

You might be correct with your experience

[ashdaniel]

It is totally precum. Once your hard and you rub ur penis against the underwear or mattress. Somehow you will leak precum.

[Jamesk0050]

I used to get them when I was younger but less now

[bojack]

The random boners are totally normal. and the wet spot was prob just a bit of precum