how do you know if your friend is into you romantically?

[biancas]

my friend kisses me on the lips and touches my bum a lot but she said she is only into guys.
i am happy with her doing this with me but do you think she really might be into girls?

[lori99]

Either she's bi or lesbian or maybe she's just curious:)

[biancas]

Either she's bi or lesbian or maybe she's just curious:)

maybe she is a curious, good point :yeah:
i've never seeen her kiss a boy on the lips.
hope she can be my lover cos another person on the forum said you can have sex if its girl-girl and parents won't find out cos its ok to sleepover

[lori99]

The only way to know is to ask her!

[biancas]

The only way to know is to ask her!

i asked her if she was into girls but she said 'no' but i could ask her about her kissing+touching me i guess.
hope she doesn't stop is all :/

[zzzzzzzzzz]

my friend kisses me on the lips and touches my bum a lot but she said she is only into guys.
i am happy with her doing this with me but do you think she really might be into girls?

When she kisses you, do you do anything? Next time keep the kiss going. Touch her bum too!

[biancas]

When she kisses you, do you do anything? Next time keep the kiss going. Touch her bum too!

no :(
she kisses me only when she says 'hi' so its only a quick kiss for each greet so i just join her lips for that second.
i think next time i will start the kiss before her or maybe i could try to keep her lips on for longer.
she touches my bum during the kick kiss and also other times during a hug but i'm not sure if its to keep her balance or if its like for sexual.
i will touch her bum too next time :)
she's confusing but i'm grateful for her

[zzzzzzzzzz]

no :(
she kisses me only when she says 'hi' so its only a quick kiss for each greet so i just join her lips for that second.
i think next time i will start the kiss before her or maybe i could try to keep her lips on for longer.
she touches my bum during the kick kiss and also other times during a hug but i'm not sure if its to keep her balance or if its like for sexual.
i will touch her bum too next time :)
she's confusing but i'm grateful for her

If she's done it more than once, it's more than balance ;-)
I hope it goes well for you

[biancas]

If she's done it more than once, it's more than balance ;-)
I hope it goes well for you

thanks i think we can have sex now, she just said today she likes my bottom :wub:
if i wear no undies i think we can next time

[ethan-s]

Just google 'how to tell if a girl likes you'. Tons of good tips and articles. :)

[biancas]

Just google 'how to tell if a girl likes you'. Tons of good tips and articles. :)

i have a brand spanking new boyfriend now so i'm not sure if i can anyway :(

[Hermes]

Touching between girls, just as a social thing rather than a sexual thing, seems much more common than in boys. It is a cultural thing, though. Some places a handshake is about all guys ever do, others a pat on the bag or hug maybe ok, in some places even a kiss is normal.

As for kissing or feeling motivated by attraction remember that people can be anywhere on a spectrum from straight to homosexual.

[biancas]

Touching between girls, just as a social thing rather than a sexual thing, seems much more common than in boys. It is a cultural thing, though. Some places a handshake is about all guys ever do, others a pat on the bag or hug maybe ok, in some places even a kiss is normal.

As for kissing or feeling motivated by attraction remember that people can be anywhere on a spectrum from straight to homosexual.

i agree! i just really love kissing and sumtimes at night in my mind i'm thinking about kissing too like a fantasy so i think even if i'm straight i'd like a girl-smooch badly :yummy:

[zzzzzzzzzz]

if she touches my [email protected]/bum in bed will it mean i lost virginity?
if my bf ends up marrying me i hope he does me first but i def am more comfortable with going nude with my gf :yes:

I've often thought of loosing virginity as having a penis in you. Some people treat anal (bum) virginity separate. I'm not sure what that means for two girls.

[biancas]

I've often thought of loosing virginity as having a penis in you. Some people treat anal (bum) virginity separate. I'm not sure what that means for two girls.

i heard that 2girls finger each other in bed so maybe that is virginity losing, but probably each person has their own idea and ruules :)

[LanaPole]

Sounds like she's into girls, at least a little bit curious.

[The1uwant]

i agree! i just really love kissing and sumtimes at night in my mind i'm thinking about kissing too like a fantasy so i think even if i'm straight i'd like a girl-smooch badly :yummy:

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