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lisastew
February 23rd, 2017, 03:33 PM
Hello. I’ve actually never shared anything on forums before. I don’t know if that was the best solution though. I feel like I can’t talk about this subject to anybody. I’m constantly just running with this idea alone. Just to start, I’m a 16 year old teenage girl that has never had any relationships before.

So all of this started at the beginning of the year. This guy came to my friend and I, asking us if we could lend our phone. The first time I saw him I didn’t feel any feelings or attraction for him. A few time after, I noticed he went to the same school as I did. After watching him a multiple times discreetly, I’ve started having like “feelings” for him. From this day I’m feeling something really special for him but I couldn’t describe it. Actually I think I’m attracted to his style (the way he dresses up) and the fact that he looks really mysterious. I’ve not actually seen his face close. Weeks passed and I had to go to the cinema with my class to watch a play of Romeo and Juliet. He was also there. I watched him during the projection. I felt like I was in a movie. I don’t think he knows I exist. He’s probably never seen me. Whereas I’m always thinking about him. I found his name on FB. But all of this is so painful. He probably has a girlfriend and he’s like 2 years older than me. Since that I often want to cry. I don’t know how to deal with that. Every time I see him I wish he wasn’t here.
I know all of this is stupid and I shouldn’t pay that much attention to a guy I don’t know, but I don’t know what to do.

What should I do ?
Thank you

ska8er
February 23rd, 2017, 05:30 PM
U have a crush on him. The only thing I can
say is befriend him on Facebook and c if he
gets back to u. If he does-mention to him if
he remembers that u lent a phone to him. If
he is interested he will get back to u or not if
he is taken.

ClaraWho
February 25th, 2017, 09:02 AM
It sounds like you have blown all of this way out of proportion. So you are attracted mildly to a guy because he seems mysterious, and? As has been suggested, befriend him on Facebook or say hello. He isn't going to notice you if you are discreetly hiding in the shadows. Further, once you get to know more about him you might find he is actually really boring. You've no way of knowing and I would posit that is why you feel so frustrated with yourself, with the situation. So take a step to change the way things are. If that doesn't work, take a different approach, etc.

~ Clara