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DrkProdigy09
February 23rd, 2014, 10:24 PM
Okay so i've been talking to this girl from my school that ive liked for a couple months now. I recently found out about 2 weeks ago that she liked me, we were talking on Facebook one night and she told me that she liked me and i asked her what had attracted me to her she responded with the following:

"You're really cute and funny. You're nice to me and not an asshole to everyone else, lol. And well you seem like a really fuckin rad person."

But after this ive been getting very confused, we talk daily she sits by me at lunch even gave me a kiss on the cheek one day and we've been facetiming about everyday for a couple hours and just talking and she even asked me a ton of questions to get to know me better.

Here comes the confusing part. She just got out of a long-term relationship about a month ago (they were dating for a year and a half) and she told me a couple of days ago that she liked other guys but only had a crush on me so that made me happy but im just not sure what to do, when i ask her about it she says that she isnt ready for a relationship so it isnt a big deal which is fine but she just confuses me here recently she has been talking about other guys ignoring her when she texts them, and some times when i snapchat or text her she somewhat ignores me or just responds with short respones which i think may come from the fact that she has depression and anxiety and she may have been in a bad mood at that time.

Im not good with relationships and havent been in many so i dont know what to do here, either give her space or wait for her to be ready for a relationship or how to deal with her liking other guys.

Halp,
DrkProdigy

Living For Love
February 24th, 2014, 11:29 AM
You'd better just give her some time. She's probably not ready because her previous relationship might haven't gone too well, so she's scared the same will happen with you. If you're really interested in her, you need to prove her you're different. I wouldn't give too much attention to the way she texts you and stuff, it's more important the way she acts when she's actually with you. But make sure you don't put too much pressure on her, just keep her close and keep talking to her.

JamesSuperBoy
February 24th, 2014, 12:45 PM
Maybe the short responses to msgs are due to her being busy with other things - but maybe allow some time here and do not over do the texts and social media bit - that just leaves you less to talk about when you do meet up.

DrkProdigy09
February 24th, 2014, 05:43 PM
Alright now today i saw her after my first class and she just nodded by way so i texted her and asked what was wrong and she just said it was "people" she didnt talk to me much at school today and when she did it was just short responses.

Im thinking depression is hitting her hard but don't really know what to do to help her since ive never dealt with it personally.