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Thunderstorm
February 20th, 2017, 03:52 PM
So this weekend I went to visit my best friend at her college. My ex from last summer goes there. We ended good, although I was sad for part of last semester. I got over him but have always thought about him in passing. When I posted on snapchat that I was at his school he messaged me saying that we should meet up. We met up and I spent the night at his place just sleeping and cuddling. It was odd. I don't know what to think of it and I don't know what he is thinking. I asked him why he brought me to his place when we were waking up but he was still sort of sleeping so he just mumbled. I don't know what to think and when I said he should visit me he said he was visiting his friend nearby in April and "that's pretty close to where you are". Advice? Comments? Opinions?
ska8er
February 20th, 2017, 06:35 PM
Seems like u decided to go to his place. It was
not like he forced u to go with him. I guess he
enjoyed ur company and wanted u to stay over.
I would think nothing of it-he probably still has
feelings for u.
mick01
February 22nd, 2017, 11:35 AM
You don't know what to think? Imo, that is because you are leaving it up to him to determine what's going on between you two.
What is it that you want from him? To be together again? To just be friends? Get clear with yourself what you want and act upon those feelings.
SeansLittleBro
March 1st, 2017, 11:55 AM
Since your former relationship ended good I imagine you two split as friends --- you didn't have to go spend the night in his bed with him that was your choice in accepting to stay with him -- you apparently still have feelings for him and probably need to address that with him before you do the same thing when he visits you -- as mick say try to get clear with YOUR feelings and if you want to go forward or not with him -- i'm on my second bf and not that experienced in relationships but know how I feel now towards him -- that's what is important the NOW so figure out what you want and see if that is what he wants as well -- if you're friends now don't loose that no matter what
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