I am getting afraid of cumming early at my first sex

[CaptainM]

title says it all it's starting to become a phobia

[ska8er]

U have to relax and take it easy and
don't rush into it-go easy and after
awhile u will get more used to it.

[mick01]

The first time I had sex with a girl, I came in under a minute. It was embarrassing. But it's just a matter of becoming more experienced. My best advice is to just go with it, enjoy it, and know you'll get better at it the more you do it.

[pconnor]

Take your time and relax.

[pjones]

your first time with another person can be exciting. if you know it's going to happen you can always masturbate at home first. or try and concentrate on giving your partner pleasure and delay your pleasure

[Hermes]

Edging is good pratice. Also, just don't worry. If it does happen just cuddle, return to making out or do something else together until you are ready again which, if you are really turned on by this partner, should not be long and you'll last longer the second time.

[Harrier]

Just relax. No jerk off techniques will help imo. My best advice is whoever your first girl is be honest that it's your first time and that you will probably cum real quick. You'll both laugh and that will help you relax

[Stever_big_hands]

my first jerk i shot in like 2 strokes so it gets better

[scott2002]

I'm still a virgin, and I have a lot of thoughts (and some anxiety) what my first intercourse with a girl might be like. A buddy once told me first sex is MUCH harder for the guy than the girl. We might not get hard, lose our hard, cum too quick, or have trouble cumming at all! But for the girls, all they gotta do is "be there".

[zzzzzzzzzz]

I'm still a virgin, and I have a lot of thoughts (and some anxiety) what my first intercourse with a girl might be like. A buddy once told me first sex is MUCH harder for the guy than the girl. We might not get hard, lose our hard, cum too quick, or have trouble cumming at all! But for the girls, all they gotta do is "be there".

And the worst thing is worrying about it makes any of these things more likely to happen.It easier to say than do, but enjoy the experience

[Hermes]

I'm still a virgin, and I have a lot of thoughts (and some anxiety) what my first intercourse with a girl might be like. A buddy once told me first sex is MUCH harder for the guy than the girl. We might not get hard, lose our hard, cum too quick, or have trouble cumming at all! But for the girls, all they gotta do is "be there".

I think the key is that you have to stop thinking of sex as "something you do to her" and more of a "thing you do together" - she has to be into it too. Also if you don't focus exclusing on the one act by warm up gradually she'll still enjoy it and, if she's into you, there will be other times too.

[Glis25]

Maybe practice edging when you are masturbating, it should help you be able to last longer.

[Taco69]

I am currently a virgin and this is also my fear that i will blow my load too early and she won't be happy.

You're not alone

[Kevgpdx]

You should jerk off a lot and practice edging.

[rioo]

one thing that I can share with you based on my experience is female can also get orgasm faster, if u know or ever have experience in sexual activity. You don't need to hold it forever if ur partner also can feel it and it's not like what u see in sex movie. and sexual activity is way diferent than masturbation for sure, good communication between u and ur partner will make it more relaxed.

[kev1998]

I blew my load quick the first couple times I had sex. I guess it has something to do with the excitement of sex for the first time. After that I seemed to last longer. I'm still not one that can last a long time. Maybe with practice...

[DocMcLovins]

I think it's natural. I do too. Not bad tho. My friend says it was no big deal having sex the first time. Sorta came natural.

[Atlantis]

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