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becks2000
February 18th, 2017, 07:39 AM
So, my best friend is a guy and he's got girlfriend and I'm happy for him and everything (should mention that they haven't gone public yet ad I'm the only one who knows). You can trust me when i say I'm not interested in anything other than him being my best friend, i would never jeopardise how close we are, and i actually really like his girlfriend. we constantly snapchat each other back and for, and of course like any other guy girl friendship theres rumours and everything and usually we just shut them down. but recently he's been adding fuel to the fire by saying stuff like "yeh were obviously dating" and "yes were in love" and stuff like this. then he's all of a sudden asking me all of these weird sexual questions, not asking me for sex or anything just asking my about my life (most of which he already knows because i trust him with everything). but its weird detail and just random. i want to ask him about it but the truth is i don't know how he will react and i don't want to upset him or make him feel like he's doing something wrong by asking. i just wondered like should i take this all as a sign that he likes me as more than a friend or is he just asking weird cause he's a teenager and going though something? should i confront him and ask him whats going or just leave it and see if it passes?

Blank_
February 18th, 2017, 08:15 AM
I wouldn't think anything of it unless he blatantly asks to do something with you. I have a friend who is a girl and had a boyfriend, but she'd still talk about sexual stuff with me. That's just how teenagers are!

jamie_n5
February 20th, 2017, 02:09 PM
I don't know if it's that he is that close to you and just is curious about sexual things from your point of view or what he is looking for. You could say something like a am glad to try answer any questions or problems you may be having. Then just say I don't really understand some of what you are looking for. If you two are very close friends there shouldn't be anything embarrassing or upsetting to each other by talking about any subject.