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ProudThread598
February 17th, 2017, 12:18 AM
Hi! (Although I probably seem a little young to be dating), I'm dating this amazing girl. We're both really mature for our age and really responsible. However, since I'm so used to communicating over technology, I have almost no clue on how to chat in real life, especially with my significant other. Also, I have a stutter/stammer so it makes it a little difficult to talk, even when I'm comfortable.

When I do try to talk, about half of the time, it feels really artificial, kind of like small talk. My question is:
How can I feel more comfortable talking casually with my girlfriend with my social awkwardness and stutter? (And maybe get a little closer romantically to her if you can;) )

Dare99
February 17th, 2017, 01:12 PM
Just talk to everyone. Wherever you go try and speak with people instead of keeping your head down. I used to be nervous too when speaking, but I realized that I work out my muscles to make them better, I should work out my communication skills to make them better.

Eventually you'll be less stressed and talking to someone who is close to you won't be scary at all

ska8er
February 17th, 2017, 04:10 PM
Just b urself don't try to hide anything. if u
can start with a chat tell her u r awkward in
starting conversations and r nervous. If she
really cares for u-she will understand.

jamie_n5
February 17th, 2017, 06:46 PM
Just talk to her the same way you would text her. Be yourself and try not to be self conscious if you stutter a bit. You will do fine.