Mark Lane
February 16th, 2017, 11:43 PM
Im a senior student at my highschool and I'm in a really difficult situation so lemme explain. I started talking and snap chatting with this girl in my grade. We dont have any classes and we only see each other once a week at a club meeting. So my original intentions we're to simply ask her out to grad. She isn't like one of those popular girls at our school, rather she told me that "she doesnt have alot of friends." So my guy friend found out that she found me attractive and that she is open to the idea. She told me that she really wants to go out with me alot to watch movies. As the second semester came (which is now) and were both extremely busy with school, like we're talking 8 hours of homework/studying. I asked her out to the movies and she said yes but she'll have to find time. I made her a card for Valentines which i thought was really meaningful. I gave it to her on Valentines in front of a couple of friends we would usually sit beside. By her reaction she seemed to really like it. This is where the problem begins. The following day she started to ignore me. We snapped and texted every day and now she suddenly stops. I walked into the room where we would usually meet and she ignored me. (By the way, it has only been just over a month since i first sent her a message and started talking). My friend said that after i gave her the card, she said it was cute but cringy. He also told me that she found out that i just wanted to ask her out to grad and she apparently wanted a relationship. This might be hard to understand but now theres this guy who i really dislike who's going after her (this isn't the first time he's done this, he had ruined 2 possible relationship for me). I dont know if she likes him but they usually never talk but today i see them acting as if they've been best friends for years. The more and more i think about her the more i feel like she isn't worth going for. FINAL THING, the other reason which i didn't really want to go for a relationship besides the fact that she and I are both extremely busy with school and that we have no classes together is that next year In university I'm moving to Ontario and shes not leaving. Now things are like this I dont even know if I should even ask her out to grad. Should i ask her to grad? a relationship? or just end things here? Thank you in advance to anyone who read this whole thing, I really do appreciate that you took your time to read my problem.