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morgan2110
February 23rd, 2014, 06:59 PM
What do you think about FWB? Like how do you think the two should interact outside the making out part? And how far do you think just FWB go? Also if you have a fwb when do you do stuff with them? I'm kinda fwb with this guy and i just dont want it to turn out bad... I want to be with him and do stuff but i dont want things to be awkward!
Collins1
February 23rd, 2014, 07:06 PM
Personally, when I think about FWB, I think about friends secretly having sex etc with each other (like a married couple would do!). But when they're not in bed, they just act like normal friends! I would like a FWB...
hotgirlwtits
February 23rd, 2014, 09:00 PM
I have a boy friend so i consider him my friend with benefits, lol
Luminous
February 23rd, 2014, 09:51 PM
I think it depends on the people. If they both want to go 'all the way', then they will, and it's none of my business. Personally, I would not be in a FWB relationship, I want a relationship made of more than just physical pleasure, but I don't find anything wrong with people who are FWB.
Hermes96
February 24th, 2014, 02:12 AM
i think you should stay friends out side the sex and stuff hence the friends with benefits bit at the starts if you were F**K buddy's it would be difrent as there is no pre exsiting friendship as for the wanting to be with him part i'd say go for it as there's a pretty good chance he will want it to. try dropping hints that you want more from a relation ship ,
ksdnfkfr
February 24th, 2014, 02:26 AM
I have a very close friendship that has existed since we were 9.
I mean we have always really loved each other a lot.
We have a regular friendship as far as what we do together most of the time and we've always had regular sleepovers.
When we got close to 13, we gradually moved into doing stuff during the sleepovers.
It's just a little something extra added for right now we both enjoy.
backjruton
February 28th, 2014, 05:44 PM
I would rather have a friend with benefits than be in a committed relationship
Dario Argento
March 1st, 2014, 03:55 AM
I have no problems with people we go are friends with benefits. They are just looking for a bit of fun, maybe some release. I wouldn't mind having one. The whole point of one is for there to not be awkward and to enjoy yourself. Have fun. :)
ninja789
March 1st, 2014, 04:03 AM
for me it is having sex and I have found it can easily lead to someone feeling more
you can still be friends for a bit though but after a while it changes your relationship
jenny2234
March 1st, 2014, 02:32 PM
It's between the two people. Whatever both of them are comfortable with is fine. It won't be the same for all people.
Rascaldog24
March 1st, 2014, 03:07 PM
I have FWB's and we go all the way and outside of the bedroom just act like nothings happend
grossgod11
March 1st, 2014, 03:12 PM
You stay friends and act like friends, but just with an extra added on, and you take it as far as you both feel comfortable it can be real fun if you are up to it and don't get attached.
Dracarys
March 1st, 2014, 03:42 PM
Given my way,I think friends with benefits is a great idea as long as you don't have emotional feelings for the friend.Basically you know you can always trust that friend and you count on them to be there for you.And if you feel like it you can always experiment stuff with them before you actually do it with someone you care about
jayce_xt
March 1st, 2014, 10:37 PM
I think it's stupid how people try and label relationships. Committed relationship/friends with benefits/open relationships/etc... that's not important. What's important is how the two people involved feel about what they have. I've been in a relationship where we didn't really know what to call it: it was just its own thing. We knew what we had, and that's all that mattered. So would I have friends with benefits? Sure. Whatever that actually means (I'm sure everyone here has their own definition).
Danagal
March 2nd, 2014, 05:22 AM
Perfect situation for me.
youngandyours
March 2nd, 2014, 05:41 AM
It's so different between girls and guys. Girls always tend to be the ones who become attached and want more even if they were initially in it for sex. *Guilty* lol. I've been friends with my FWB for more than 3 years and we only started hooking up last summer. Right now feelings are everywhere but we don't want to date since he's in another city so I decided to end our "thing" yesterday. It isn't healthy for me since I don't want to be in this "thing" if it's not going anywhere. The idea of a FWB is amazing, but the fun part of it only lasts for so long. It will have to end eventually and I think at least one person gets hurt in the process.
Pittsburgh
March 2nd, 2014, 07:19 AM
I have done this and it can be complicated, be careful !!
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