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baseball211
February 7th, 2017, 08:04 PM
Anyways a little backstory, I Dmed this girl just after Christmas and we stayed up until 1:30 that night talking. Got her number right off the bat. We've texted every single day since I first Dmed her, with a few nights here and there when we stayed up until about 2 am talking. We have similar interests, talked about previous relationships, and life experiences. One problem- we've never met. I've called her beautiful man you times and she's called me attractive but none of that really matters since we've never met. Her and I are always just so busy with something. We live about 10 miles apart to give perspective. For now, it looks as if we're meeting next Saturday. Now the thing is I REALLY like her and don't want to waste anytime trying to get into a relationship with her. I really want to say something about a relationship now, but how would I do that considering we've never met? Or should I just wait until we meet before I make a move?

*beautiful a few times

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jainfelix90
February 8th, 2017, 03:53 AM
Do you think she too feels the same way you feel for her? I suggest you to talk about this to her over the phone, so that if the response is negative then you don't need to meet her.

Reg_VT
February 8th, 2017, 08:44 AM
I would wait a while since i just met the person a few days ago, but id have a strong feeling that a relationship would happen considering how well we connected on the first few days we met. also meet in a public place for safty reasons

ska8er
February 8th, 2017, 03:27 PM
Meet and get to know her at least
a little bit before u jump into things.
It just might not work out and u will
end up getting hurt.

jamie_n5
February 8th, 2017, 09:59 PM
If you are going to meet in person soon then I would wait to tell her. You will most likely be able to know for sure after you meet her in person and talk some if you want to tell her how you feel and to start a relationship. I think that this is the best way for you to know for sure if you really like her enough after you meet and get to know each other better before you enter into a relationship.