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rioo
January 29th, 2017, 08:11 AM
Alright I still live with my parent, but yeah I've doing it lot times in my room but without they know it.
my big question , is it actually appropriate to doing it at home? How about you guys? Because maybe there some family who is so religious or very strict with that one.
I've asking this question to my friends, but they mostly doing it when their parent not home or in dorm friend house or like that. I never talking about sex with my parent.

Just JT
January 29th, 2017, 08:18 AM
My gut tells me that if you never had this kinda convo with your mom or dad you could probably assume they wouldn't approve. I have at my home. Mine do not approve. But I also don't go around telling them we're going upstairs to do it either. It's a private thing

ska8er
January 29th, 2017, 01:03 PM
In ur case I would not do it at home
unless u r a maverick and want a
confrontation with ur parent. Y start
a war.

Magenta
January 29th, 2017, 01:16 PM
I mean, let's be real. You're either gonna do it at home or at your partner's place. Maybe just save it until no one else is home? I never talked about sex with my parents but then again, I never had sex when I was living at home. Nowadays, I live on my own so there's no issue but back when I was living with a parent, nah.

Tobyisnotdead
January 29th, 2017, 01:49 PM
My parents are religious, so I tend to just keep it quiet and/or go to my basement. I have a big ads room in the attic so it tends to insulate sound.

Zachary G
January 29th, 2017, 02:22 PM
My mom is pretty liberal and knows that I am sexually active. I have had sex at home many times, I try to do it when I know I will be home alone, but there have been times when she has come home while I was doing it.

auser_name
January 29th, 2017, 06:40 PM
I can't have sex at my home for the simple fact my parents don't know I am gay. I did how ever have sex with my boyfriend and his house when we were dating, and his parents seemed completely fine with it. We never told them directly but I feel they know for the simple fact I used to stay there overnight. If it was my children I would rather them have sex in there home where they are safe rather than some possibly dangerous and most likely filthy, disease ridden place with the possibility of them being caught. But obviously they must be of sound mind to make a formal judgement on the situation which I believe to be at 16, which was the age I lastly virginity. Any younger and I wouldn't permit it.

jamie_n5
January 30th, 2017, 07:52 PM
If you are going to have sex then I see no reason not to in your own room or your partners home. It is better to do that than out in the street somewhere.

VioletPerkins
January 30th, 2017, 08:01 PM
I don't have any problems having sex at home, but that's because I'm very open with my parents. We had the talk about it, so they know I'm sexually active. They don't have a problem with it

pconnor
January 30th, 2017, 09:59 PM
I think its bet to tell yer parenst.

Dalcourt
January 30th, 2017, 11:22 PM
I always was very open with sex related things with my Dad and so it never was a problem to do it at home. In fact he always was glad when I did it at home instead of somewhere else.

Emilyyy
January 31st, 2017, 06:02 AM
Yeah I think a lot of teenagers have sex at home a they have nowhere else to do it.

ceto2
February 4th, 2017, 06:40 PM
had a talk to with mum dad they said as be careful n use the safety way.

Miss Ophelia
February 11th, 2017, 06:49 PM
I have sex at home and at my friends house too. As we are both girls, I am pretty sure no one suspects anything. :)

scott2002
February 24th, 2017, 07:12 AM
Personally, I can't imagine having sex at home when my parents are home, but I've never had sex ever yet. So I haven't had to personally deal with this. I'd say, your parents probably know that you're doing it but it's just not talked about. "Don't ask, don't tell" sort of thing.

biancas
February 26th, 2017, 09:15 AM
never had sex and i don't have a mum but my dad doesn't let boys in the house :(
but have been on top of a boys bed when doing homework but his door is open and his mum walks in a lot.
so i don't think i will ever have sex but i feel like sex on his bed cos my dress is out of place.

I have sex at home and at my friends house too. As we are both girls, I am pretty sure no one suspects anything. :)

wow thats a good idea!

Harrier
February 26th, 2017, 07:23 PM
Yes I have had sex at home when nobody else is at home. But I much prefer to do it at my gf's house. I can just relax more and be myself and not worry if someone might come home unexpectantly.

stoneflowe96
February 27th, 2017, 08:47 AM
I did have sex at home and it was never a problem. Sure it is better when we were alone. Maybe I never had a problem because I was already 16 and I had a good sex education.

biancas
February 27th, 2017, 09:10 AM
Yes I have had sex at home when nobody else is at home. But I much prefer to do it at my gf's house. I can just relax more and be myself and not worry if someone might come home unexpectantly.

does your girlfriend's parents let you in you gf's bedroom including a closed door?
my dad does not let a boy in my bedroom.
but he lets girls in my bedrrom including sleeping over.

Harrier
February 27th, 2017, 06:30 PM
does your girlfriend's parents let you in you gf's bedroom including a closed door?
my dad does not let a boy in my bedroom.
but he lets girls in my bedrrom including sleeping over.

Yes her mom does now but not at first. I had to earn her trust first. I don't mean she trusts me not to touch her. She knows I do that (how much she thinks I touch her idk lol) but she trusts me not to break her heart on purpose. But we are both over 16. You're younger and, from what I read, very inexperienced and naive about boys. I think it's good a boy can't be in a closed room with you. He would quite easily take advantage of you.

biancas
February 28th, 2017, 10:45 AM
Yes her mom does now but not at first. I had to earn her trust first. I don't mean she trusts me not to touch her. She knows I do that (how much she thinks I touch her idk lol) but she trusts me not to break her heart on purpose. But we are both over 16. You're younger and, from what I read, very inexperienced and naive about boys. I think it's good a boy can't be in a closed room with you. He would quite easily take advantage of you.

my friend seems to like girls/my body so at least i can be with her in the bedroom.

scott2002
March 1st, 2017, 08:42 AM
Yes I have had sex at home when nobody else is at home. But I much prefer to do it at my gf's house. I can just relax more and be myself and not worry if someone might come home unexpectantly.

What??? Your gf must not live with her parents if you're more relaxed at her house and not worried if someone comes home unexpectedly.

I've never had sex yet, but I think about these things a lot. I've thought about what if I'm doing it with my gf on her bed at home and her dad comes home! I'm imagining him coming after me with a knife trying to cut my wee wee off!!

Harrier
March 1st, 2017, 10:43 PM
What??? Your gf must not live with her parents if you're more relaxed at her house and not worried if someone comes home unexpectedly.

I've never had sex yet, but I think about these things a lot. I've thought about what if I'm doing it with my gf on her bed at home and her dad comes home! I'm imagining him coming after me with a knife trying to cut my wee wee off!!

My gf doesn't have a dad. Her mom doesn't come home early. Her sister doesn't care and won't tell on us. Perfect scenario. :yeah:

Harrier
March 1st, 2017, 10:46 PM
my friend seems to like girls/my body so at least i can be with her in the bedroom.

Well at least a girl can't get you pregnant lol

biancas
March 2nd, 2017, 09:01 AM
Well at least a girl can't get you pregnant lol

impossible :yes:

Mrstealyourgirl11
March 2nd, 2017, 09:30 AM
for your first time yea do it because later on u will be like that was easy in it well be something to tell people about good luck make sure ur door lock