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Brightwolf
January 27th, 2017, 05:25 PM
Like, my body is disproportionate, my legs look kinda like an adult's but my upper half looks like a 14-year olds, except my shoulders, which are broad. My neck is on the large side I think. I'm not tall but I'm not short either, but I don't think I'm average height as well, I range from a little over 5'8" in the morning to 5'7" at night. My crotch area is probably the weirdest. It's really hairy, but my penis and balls look like a someone's who's just started puberty in my opinion. So my question is, does anyone else feel like this?

countryplowboy
January 27th, 2017, 05:43 PM
Yea don't worry dude..everybody changes at a different rate and your body will change in stages. Like me for example: I just turned 15 a few weeks ago. My body is muscular and I look more like 18 but my voice still sounds 13. I've normal or slight less pubes but a pretty large dick and balls...bigger than other 15 yr olds I've seen..I've got hairy legs but smooth arms and no pit hair..see we're all different and our bodies won't change all at once. I'm sure you'll be fine..I know it can be tough sometimes but it'll be over soon

jamie_n5
January 27th, 2017, 09:27 PM
I think that we all look at ourselves and feel inadequate at times. This is too small this doesn't look right. Your upper body is usually the last thing to develop. The shoulders broaden and your chest gets larger. As far as you being hairy and the size of your penis and balls. Have you ever seen your dad's penis? You can expect to look or be what he looks like. I look almost exactly like my dad down there.

Brightwolf
January 27th, 2017, 11:26 PM
I think that we all look at ourselves and feel inadequate at times. This is too small this doesn't look right. Your upper body is usually the last thing to develop. The shoulders broaden and your chest gets larger. As far as you being hairy and the size of your penis and balls. Have you ever seen your dad's penis? You can expect to look or be what he looks like. I look almost exactly like my dad down there.

I have, though not recently, and he's on the large side. It hangs and everything. Mine, on the other hand, just kinda pokes out an inch or two, maybe a little more.

Hermes
January 28th, 2017, 04:36 AM
What you describe sounds normal. Your limbs grow first so that includes your legs but if you check your arms I bet they seem long too. Then your back grows making your trunk longer and more in proportion to your limbs. I think your penis will grow more too.

Brightwolf
January 28th, 2017, 12:57 PM
What you describe sounds normal. Your limbs grow first so that includes your legs but if you check your arms I bet they seem long too. Then your back grows making your trunk longer and more in proportion to your limbs. I think your penis will grow more too.

Well I never noticed how long my arms are. They're pretty long I think. I don't think my trunk is proportional to my limbs though, even at 18. My torso seems small.

ska8er
January 28th, 2017, 02:47 PM
Like, my body is disproportionate, my legs look kinda like an adult's but my upper half looks like a 14-year olds, except my shoulders, which are broad. My neck is on the large side I think. I'm not tall but I'm not short either, but I don't think I'm average height as well, I range from a little over 5'8" in the morning to 5'7" at night. My crotch area is probably the weirdest. It's really hairy, but my penis and balls look like a someone's who's just started puberty in my opinion. So my question is, does anyone else feel like this?

At 14 I was 5'5" and had size 10 feet-I was tripping
all over myself so ur not alone in feeling that u r
disproportionate but maybe u r a little bit too hard
on urself with ur body. What is the difference in being
5'8' in the am and 5'7" pm? Don't fret over ur body-a
lot of other things could b worse. I'm sure a lot of us
going thru puberty r not satisfied with the way we look
but there is nothing we can do so we have to just live
with it. With what u say I think ur average. :):cool:

jamie_n5
January 28th, 2017, 03:13 PM
Well I still think you have a good shot and growing some more.

Brightwolf
January 28th, 2017, 03:30 PM
At 14 I was 5'5" and had size 10 feet-I was tripping
all over myself so ur not alone in feeling that u r
disproportionate but maybe u r a little bit too hard
on urself with ur body. What is the difference in being
5'8' in the am and 5'7" pm? Don't fret over ur body-a
lot of other things could b worse. I'm sure a lot of us
going thru puberty r not satisfied with the way we look
but there is nothing we can do so we have to just live
with it. With what u say I think ur average. :):cool:

Yeah I agree, I think I'm too hard on myself. Thanks.

Harrier
January 28th, 2017, 03:43 PM
Some people are like that. Or like others say, you are being too hard on yourself. You are what you are ... unless you change it thru working out.

Hermes
January 28th, 2017, 04:13 PM
Well I never noticed how long my arms are. They're pretty long I think. I don't think my trunk is proportional to my limbs though, even at 18. My torso seems small.

But my point was that having those proportions: long limbs and a short trunk, is a development stage. Yes, you are 18 but I am sure in other posts you have made you have indicated you are a late developer so, while your peers may now have more equal proportions, you have yet to catch up which you will do in time.

Brightwolf
January 28th, 2017, 04:27 PM
But my point was that having those proportions: long limbs and a short trunk, is a development stage. Yes, you are 18 but I am sure in other posts you have made you have indicated you are a late developer so, while your peers may now have more equal proportions, you have yet to catch up which you will do in time.

Yeah I did start late and most of my friends have more equal(?) proportions. I'm just not a fan of waiting for results. And there's a difference in knowing that I'm going to grow in my head and knowing that I'm going to grow in my heart (do you get what I'm saying? I think I'm being confusing) Thanks!

NewLeafsFan
January 28th, 2017, 06:08 PM
A lot of ppl think that theyre body is like the dyring puberty. This is normal. Im sure you will grow out of it.

Pratik
February 4th, 2017, 01:21 PM
Yes i was also like you....then i started ejaculating and then i got beard and mustache....hairs on my chest.. voice change to grow one boy . My thinking change to puberty.

Kyle37
February 4th, 2017, 04:21 PM
Don't worry, different people experience different changes and to a different extent than others. Your makeup after puberty is really random, and you can't really compare yourself to others in this sense. Other people also have issues where they haven't fully "matured" to the extent they thought they would in some areas, such as voice, height, body hair, etc. So be happy with what you got

themanconnor
February 5th, 2017, 11:56 PM
I feel the same way. Just have faith that you will continue to grow and you will be proportional some day. I have really weak and small shoulders and arms but I just forget about it and focus on the parts of me that I like

jordand
February 6th, 2017, 12:01 AM
yeah sounds pretty weird dude

Blank_
February 6th, 2017, 07:27 PM
I can't really explain everything else that's going on, it sounds like your body is just going through the latter stages of puberty and trying to iron everything out. But as for the height thing, everybody actually does lose an inch of height throughout the day, as the force of gravity compresses the spine, but it goes back to normal in the morning.