Anxiety around girls

[Pika2001]

Hey, hope you all are having a great day.

Iv'e been getting anxiety from bring around girls, especially the girls I have crushes on. Today in Math class, I dropped my pencil and it rolled under this girls chair, I wanted to ask her to kick it to me, but the anxiety got to me and I didn't say anything to her, I just ended up waiting to the end of class when she was out of her desk to go grab my pencil. I can't talk to girls, unless they say something first, but I never had a full conversation, and whenever i get the guts to say something, it's usually awkward.

I've been upset about this for a while, because I have a huge crush on this girl, and I'm not talking to her at all, I feel like I'll never get a Girlfriend. I ended up crying last night about this, especially because I fatasize what it will be like to be in a relationship with the girl I like, but I know this will never happen, I'm worried that I will never get over the anxiety.


BTW, this is more then the typical nervousness when talking to the girl you like, this nervousness PREVENT'S me from saying anything to them.

Am I the only one with this problem?
What should I do?

[ska8er]

Never say never. U have this thought in ur head
that u r defeated before u even start to make a
friend with a girl. A lot of guys r nervous especially
if it is their first attempt to get a girl to notice them.
U have to give a little attention to gain attention even
if the girl would not have given u back the pencil. Just
b urself-take deep breaths-start with a Hi and a smile.
Take small steps. To make friends comment on some
thing about them-sports-music-compliment them.

[Ineedyou]

I would start off easy to get some practice, you could try talking to a girl who you don't find attractive and eventually work your way up. I used to be really nervous talking to people that I liked, but the more and more I did it, it eventually got easier.

[klfjgmb]

Just worry about the moment you're in... One day, one conversation, one person, nothing else. Try to leave as much of the other "what if" scenarios out of it. Just be you!

[Bontigo Papi .]

I think you need to find a way to speak to them other than face to face . basically , use instant messaging . I personally used to that when I was young to talk to girls because I couldn't do it and go straight to their faces , right now , everything is going great , you just need time with it .