Older Guys

[Emily 13]

Ok so there is some older boys at school that I think are hot and secretly fantasies about getting with. Would older guys consider me or not ?

[WhoWhatWhen]

I'm not sure whether they'd consider you or not, but I would stick to your age range when in school. From personal experience, when they are older than you they usually are in a whole different stage of life.

[Bontigo Papi .]

If you were from my school , yes . I don't know what's the situation where you're from .

[Uniquemind]

Ok so there is some older boys at school that I think are hot and secretly fantasies about getting with. Would older guys consider me or not ?

Guys mature slower than girls.

But here's what I've observed both in the immediate now, and those slightly older.

Guys remain horn dogs well into their college years. You have a subset of guys who will not have a problem dating younger by 2-3 years, and you have a large percentage that will not date girls in the early to mid-teens.

It really going to depend, but dating older guys can be dangerous in terms of what level of power and leverage they can have over you monetarily, and emotionally-psychologically.

It's fine to fantasize about whatever you want, but reality is another scenario.

How big is the age gap, the next question is how big is the maturity gap and understanding of the world at large and how each of you fit into that and what you want out of life?


I'm currently with an older partner myself, but what makes it work is the trust and both of us are low-pressure in terms of what we demand from each other in emotional-relationship maintenance. He's got work, and I've got school and we've literally got a 6 month plan, a 1 year plan, a 5 year plan, and hopefully a longer future (but i acknowledge a breakup could always occur) and I plan for that too, although I'd be pretty sad.

[zzzzzzzzzz]

Ok so there is some older boys at school that I think are hot and secretly fantasies about getting with. Would older guys consider me or not ?

If they like you, why not :-)

[ska8er]

Ok so there is some older boys at school that I think are hot and secretly fantasies about getting with. Would older guys consider me or not ?

U can fantasize all u want but y not check out
guys closer to ur age-older guys might just
consider u as easy and u don't want to let
that hang over u.

[everlong]

Depends on how much older they are

[LanaPole]

I think they would. They can't be too old since you're at least in the same school

[ClovesXIII]

from experience, I wouldn't recommend it.

I got pretty hurt by a guy three years older.

But if you believe you can handle whatever is to come, who am I to stop you ?

[jamie_n5]

It depends how old you are and how much older that you are talking about. There is nothing wrong with dating older guys unless you are like 14 and they 17+ then there would be a big problem.

[Emilyyy]

It really depends on the size of the age gap, any more than about 3 years starts to be a problem in teenage years I would say.

[Zachary G]

I think when it comes to older guys liking younger girls, I think it has a lot to do with maturity and how a girl carries herself that makes them look at you. Im not an expert when it comes to this, but I have had my experiences with dating older guys and this is what they tell me.

[Sandra123]

Ok so there is some older boys at school that I think are hot and secretly fantasies about getting with. Would older guys consider me or not ?

Is good boy to be older 3 or more years because will leading you and will take care for you
I always look older boys and every girl should :)

[Anniebanannie]

Emily, it really depends on the people involved. Same is true at any age.

[Uniquemind]

It's all about the person.


Also if you date older understand it means less of your high school years exist while they are also on campus. Unless they get held back a grade, which would be a warning sign of a bad partner, eventually it'll change into a long distance relationship.


Could you handle that?

[Theekshana]

it depends on how nice the guy is i think. i have been in this 'thing' with a guy who is lot older for a long time now. can't say we have been dating like a couple but we sort of have. its about how he handles it and how prepared you are to handle it. there's no right answer to it. either you go with the flow and hope it goes right or it doesn't

[jainfelix90]

I don't think there is any issue with dating older guys if they are interested in you. I have seen some of my friends dating older guys when they were in high school but the relationships didn't last for long except for few.

[wrecked]

Ok so there is some older boys at school that I think are hot and secretly fantasies about getting with. Would older guys consider me or not ?

They probably would, just don't let them take advantage of you

[Swinderman]

I’m sure some would and some wouldn’t. If your interested in that you will find someone to fulfill your curiosity. just be careful cus they may want more than your ready for.

[Atlantis]

I’m sure some would and some wouldn’t. If your interested in that you will find someone to fulfill your curiosity. just be careful cus they may want more than your ready for.

Please don't bump old threads. :locked: