Feel regretful or bad after i do stuff with guys

[hockeyboy2000]

I've only done a bit with guys, but after I did, I like felt really bad, and like regretted it kinda, anyone felt like this before?

[john1999]

Yeah I've jacked off with my best friend (ourselves, not each other) several times, and every single time afterwards I've felt like "why did I do this... this was a bad idea." And I usually swear that I'll never do it again, and then I end up doing it again anyway. Glad to know I'm not the only one who feels this way

[DocMcLovins]

I've never done stuff with guys. Other than jerk off at home after seeing some guys with bigger dicks showering at school. I sorta felt bad about that. So I basically went back to jsut fapping over girls.

[ska8er]

There is nothing wrong to feel this way.
We all have different feelings especially
when we r horny. When we masturbate
it is like a high and then after we orgaz
it becomes a downer. That is y some of
us feel bad after doing it-experimenting
or by ourselves.

[rynoblue]

There is nothing wrong to feel this way.
We all have different feelings especially
when we r horny. When we masturbate
it is like a high and then after we orgaz
it becomes a downer. That is y some of
us feel bad after doing it-experimenting
or by ourselves.

that makes sense

[Straya]

I've only done a bit with guys, but after I did, I like felt really bad, and like regretted it kinda, anyone felt like this before?

its pretty standard after sex feeling

[Hermes]

This is very similar to the feeling guilty after masturbation problem in that you have somehow picked up the idea that what you're doing is wrong, then you get horny and the horniness takes priority and you end up doing it, then once you've cum and are no longer horny your feelings about it being wrong are uncovered again.

The idea that doing things with others guys is wrong is itself wrong, of course, but it is still widespread. Really, when it comes to doing something sexual, with either sex, the only time it is wrong is when the other person didn't consent.

[Bontigo Papi .]

I just kinda tend to stay away from stuff like that .

[mick01]

I have an older friend that I give bj's to when he wants but he doesn't reciprocate in any way so I feel guilty sometimes after I'm finished and think I shouldn't do that anymore. Then he asks again and its hard to say no.

[zzzzzzzzzz]

As long as you both are happy at what you do, there is nothing to feel guilty about

[jamie_n5]

Nothing wrong with what you are doing or have done. It is just normal puberty related curiosity. So I wouldn't be worried about it.

[tim77]

I felt very guilty after each of the first few times. But eventually I decided there was nothing wrong with what we were doing and got over it.

[refrigeratorx]

I used to be that way with jerking off. But accepting things isn't easy. Same with when I did something with someone else. But the post orgasm regret is something that happens to most of us. Doing really well with it these days. But always working to get better haha good luck dude

[pjones]

we are taught by society that it's wrong to be either "under age" or to have any type of same sex experience. so feeling guilty is natural, wish is wasn't

[bigwolf2]

There is nothing wrong to feel this way.
We all have different feelings especially
when we r horny. When we masturbate
it is like a high and then after we orgaz
it becomes a downer. That is y some of
us feel bad after doing it-experimenting
or by ourselves.
This happens because of the refractory period, which is the recovery phase after orgasm. Basically, during the refractory period you are incapable of becoming sexually aroused and you might feel regression.

[ska8er]

I have an older friend that I give bj's to when he wants but he doesn't reciprocate in any way so I feel guilty sometimes after I'm finished and think I shouldn't do that anymore. Then he asks again and its hard to say no.

Don't let him take advantage of u if he does
not reciprocate since he expects u to pleasure
him when He wants to. I find this should b a
give/take situation. U know him better but I
would tell him that u need him to give in or
u will stop. Don't get into a guilt trip-ur better
than that.

[Falcons_11]

When I first started doing stuff with some of my friends I did feel weird or guilty after I had done it with them. But now I don't think it's wrong or weird. So I've gotten over the felling of guilt when I've done some things with my friends. I think that it's a normal thing especially when you going through puberty with your friends.

[Collins1]

Yeah I tend to regret things after. But then a day or so later I want to do it again! I think it's normal!

[ashdaniel]

Same here, when I was younger I used to regret but now I know I am bi I still regret because some hookup I have.

[ilc.69]

Yeah. The same happens to me. I've had two sexual encounters without actual intercourse with two guys and yeah, after them I kinda feel bad, but I think that's just because of social rules that makes you think it's bad. But it isnt, you're just curious, or experimenting sex.

[jordand]

I felt depressed aftee doing stuff with a guy

[Zachary G]

There is nothing wrong to feel this way.
We all have different feelings especially
when we r horny. When we masturbate
it is like a high and then after we orgaz
it becomes a downer. That is y some of
us feel bad after doing it-experimenting
or by ourselves.

I totally agree with ska8er,it slike a high when you are doing it and a downer when its all said and done with. Been there, done that. Youre not alone.

[Curious_Guy]

Yeah after the first time me and best friend jerked each other off we both felt weird about it, but after talking about it we both realized that it felt great, we had fun doing, so why should we feel weird about doing it together.

[ugaboy]

First times yeah, After that it got kinda less awkward every time.

[owl__city]

Well I'm guessing that it's the same feeling (sometimes) we (boys) and girls have after a one night stand. Feeling of guilt and feeling a little bit "dirty" because it doesn't mean anything and you just did it to make yourself feel little less horny. Nothing wrong with that.

[Bikini Boy]

I never really felt bad. I actually enjoyed it.

[DarkWish]

in the beginning i did but it pass when u feel mor confy and its feel right for u. i was comfused of my sexualty for years and always feeling bad when watch guys fuck or if i watched my classmates in locker room showers in school

[Pratik]

My friend there nothing in it to have shame of ...i have heard that some of girls of our school also do this in group...me and my friend meet in my guest house once in week to do party and we also enjoy group jerking shaking very much...enjoy my friend this time will not come again in your life..

[Glis25]

I think its just a feeling of embarassment combined with the losing of innocense