Losing virginity with a one night stand?

[ilc.69]

Hey guys, well I'm 16 and straight, but for some years now I've been really curious about guys. I while ago a friend and me blew eachother but we live in different countries so I havent seen him in a long time; thats been the only sexual experience I've had. But lately I've been wanting to have sex so bad, masturbating got kinda boring, but the thing is that I'm a virgin, so I dont know what to do. I'd love to have sex with a guy, but I'm into girls, romantically speaking, I'd also love to have sex with a girl, but guys really turn me on. So i dont know if I should just lose my virginity with a one night stand or wait for someone special. What do you guys think?

[Vegas2933]

The fact that you are costantly horny can be put down to raging hormones. But because you would love to have sex with a guy, maybe your bi? I don't know. Labelling is bullshit anyway...

[ilc.69]

I dont think I'm bi, because I wouldn't date a guy. And I'm not horny all the time, I just feel like having sex, like jacking off dont do it anymore lol

[Zachary G]

Hey guys, well I'm 16 and straight, but for some years now I've been really curious about guys. I while ago a friend and me blew eachother but we live in different countries so I havent seen him in a long time; thats been the only sexual experience I've had. But lately I've been wanting to have sex so bad, masturbating got kinda boring, but the thing is that I'm a virgin, so I dont know what to do. I'd love to have sex with a guy, but I'm into girls, romantically speaking, I'd also love to have sex with a girl, but guys really turn me on. So i dont know if I should just lose my virginity with a one night stand or wait for someone special. What do you guys think?

I understand what you are saying and its not an easy position to be in. I lost my virginity to a "one night stand" who later became my bf. I dont think I would have had any regrets about losing my virginity to him even if he never became my bf or if I ever saw him again. You have to make the decision that you can live with whether it be waiting for that special someone, or going for a one-time thing.

[DocMcLovins]

Do what you want but to me it sounds like you are straight and either so desperate that you are willing to do shit with a guy or maybe you are bi or just confused. I usually don't give advice to other people, especially older people but sounds like you shouldn't be having sex if you're that confused. Just my 2 cents. That or have sex with the right girl at the right time. But nothing wrong with fapping. Just try new ways and new porn to fap to. Or maybe get oral from a girl first.

[ska8er]

Hey guys, well I'm 16 and straight, but for some years now I've been really curious about guys. I while ago a friend and me blew eachother but we live in different countries so I havent seen him in a long time; thats been the only sexual experience I've had. But lately I've been wanting to have sex so bad, masturbating got kinda boring, but the thing is that I'm a virgin, so I dont know what to do. I'd love to have sex with a guy, but I'm into girls, romantically speaking, I'd also love to have sex with a girl, but guys really turn me on. So i dont know if I should just lose my virginity with a one night stand or wait for someone special. What do you guys think?

Don't Ho urself-ur a virgin-save urself for someone
special- a one night stand might not turn out to b
all that u think it might b especially with a stranger.

[BryGuy]

Sounds like you are bisexual. Nothing wrong with it and I wouldn't be ashamed of it. On the one night stand Issue I wouldn't do it. Could just left to more problems then you need.

[SethTheGreat]

For me, I love the guy that I am having sex with and would not change it. My best friend is like you, he likes girls but gets off with having sex with guys. I think it if it is what gets you off then go with it. With that said, keep in mind the other person's feelings. It took me some time to se that all we had was sex and a great friendship even if I am in love with him. So if you do have sex with someone you do not see yourself with, it should be the same for them, male or female. Sex is not a toy or a game, so keep the other person's feelings in mind.

[NZPerson]

Just because you wouldnt date a guy dosnt mean your not bi, im mostly sexually atracted to guys and romantically to girls.

[Second Chance]

Hey guys, well I'm 16 and straight, but for some years now I've been really curious about guys. I while ago a friend and me blew eachother but we live in different countries so I havent seen him in a long time; thats been the only sexual experience I've had. But lately I've been wanting to have sex so bad, masturbating got kinda boring, but the thing is that I'm a virgin, so I dont know what to do. I'd love to have sex with a guy, but I'm into girls, romantically speaking, I'd also love to have sex with a girl, but guys really turn me on. So i dont know if I should just lose my virginity with a one night stand or wait for someone special. What do you guys think?

I think whether you're having sex with a guy or a girl you need to be careful because when it comes to sex there is a lot more involved than simply exchanging some fluids.

The biggest thing you got to worry about is STDs and if the person you're having sex with is clean. Chances are the person you'll be having sex with might not be a virgin, and you have no way of knowing if the person is going from person to person having sex especially if you're planning a one night stand. It is far better to have sex in a relationship where you know the person is clean STD wise, or the person is on birth control if you get laid by a girl.

I would say another thing you have to think about is for some folks after having sex there could be complications such as STDs mentioned above. You have to make sure you can get access to medical help without any problem if anything happens after sex. I am not saying all sex leads to bad events, but I am saying just in case something happens you need to be able to get help just in case. If you cannot get medical attention because your parents control access to healthcare and would not be all right with you having sex, then you might want to wait until you can get access to healthcare on your own.

The final thing you have to think about is that sex generally leads to feelings and attachments. It is not like you just get laid and that is it, and you have to remember that you don't want to be used like a tissue or that you use someone else like a tissue. You want your first time to be with someone who cares about you and someone you care about as opposed to just plugging into someone which is really not much better than jacking off in my opinion.

[harristhetank]

The fact that you're hesitating shows that you're not really ready. If I was you I would wait til I am sure about what I wanted to avoid regret.

[Tpyro]

The fact that you're hesitating shows that you're not really ready. If I was you I would wait til I am sure about what I wanted to avoid regret.

Hey i totally agree with harristhetank. And for my first time wasnt a one night stand. But was a short dating time frame that i knew wouldnt last but did it anyways. I wont say i regret it but i wish looking back was with someone who i liked alot more and could look back at and say with head held high she was my first.. A few buddys lost with a few party girls and said they wished it ment more too.. As silly as it sounds you only get one first time and as awkward as it is if you have feelings for that person make that FIRST worth it. And remember the guys who talk about getting so much action and bragging all the time they are the guys that are getting non but talk non stop because there scared of being the boy scared to do stuff or getting non.

[jamie_n5]

We are all horny teens and think about sex constantly. My opinion is that sexual intercourse be it straight or gay is a special thing shared between two people that love each other . It is the most close way of intimacy and love shared by two people. That is my opinion. I think one night stands are not a good idea.

[ashdaniel]

Well we are all horny. I been through your stage and done something that I am not proud of . All I can say is take your time and you will find someone.

[Garibay]

I don't think it is bad to have sex with other guy, u can try and if u like it still doing it

[Pratik]

You should not stop your emotions of having sex its actually bad practice.... You should do what you want openly.... Enjoy guys!!