Doctor questions

[Chuck bass]

I know this is going to sound like the plot of a porno but I promise this is a real problem. Every year I go to the doctor for a checkup, and last year when I was there, at the part where he was checking my balls he was like "so have you masturbated to your first ejaculation?" And I kind of freaked out and just lied so I was like "I don't think so" and then he was like "really, I remember when I was your age.." and he told me like a short story on when he first came and like how you masturbate and stuff and it was really awkward for me! I am getting close to going back, not sure what I should say if he asks this time, please help!

[Ricky.h]

Just say you have. He's a male you're a male. He knows you have rather you say no or lie. Or if you just can't but yet tell the truth. But he's a doctor and male he could give you good advice and he's distant enough (meaning not a relative) so you won't feel awkward

Me personally I'll tell it from the mountaintop that I have sex I masturbate and I can nut because I'm proud of it, so hopefully you'll reach that. Just take steps

[Just JT]

I think it's a little strange he carried the conversation that far to include his first experiences. And I also ogres I'd just say yeah I've done that and everything works just fine. And leave it at that.

He'll understand what yiur saying

[NZPerson]

It dosnt really give the doctor any helpful clinical knowledge of when your first ehaculation is, they cal already tell your into puberty. This is just unnesecary.

[Hermes]

The doctor asking you that does seem a little strange to me but then here in the UK we don't go for regular scheduled health checks in the same way as in the USA. There are a few tests before you go to school and there are hearing and eyes tests in primary school that's about it - the doctors wait for you to consult them if you think there is anything wrong.

When you next go the one thing I wouldn't do is lie again. The doctor may respond to that by asking more questions with a view to investigating why you have not reached a normal development milestone (which in truth you have reached). If he asks, then as Just IT suggested, I'd just say everything works fine and leave it at that. If he does continue to probe and you think his curiosity is getting personal and beyond anything he should need to know for a heath check then be prepared so say that rather than lie. Just say "That is getting very personal - why do you need to know that?".

[Just JT]

The doctor asking you that does seem a little strange to me but then here in the UK we don't go for regular scheduled health checks in the same way as in the USA. There are a few tests before you go to school and there are hearing and eyes tests in primary school that's about it - the doctors wait for you to consult them if you think there is anything wrong.

When you next go the one thing I wouldn't do is lie again. The doctor may respond to that by asking more questions with a view to investigating why you have not reached a normal development milestone (which in truth you have reached). If he asks, then as Just IT suggested, I'd just say everything works fine and leave it at that. If he does continue to probe and you think his curiosity is getting personal and beyond anything he should need to know for a heath check then be prepared so say that rather than lie. Just say "That is getting very personal - why do you need to know that?".

Agreed, but also, your doctor should know everything about your developement. So some questions may be appropriate, just those were never asked of me in that way

[jamie_n5]

Kind of strange for a doctor to ask that. Maybe he is just trying to be honest with you about masturbation. If he asks again just be honest and tell him and say you enjoy it too.

[Second Chance]

I know this is going to sound like the plot of a porno but I promise this is a real problem. Every year I go to the doctor for a checkup, and last year when I was there, at the part where he was checking my balls he was like "so have you masturbated to your first ejaculation?" And I kind of freaked out and just lied so I was like "I don't think so" and then he was like "really, I remember when I was your age.." and he told me like a short story on when he first came and like how you masturbate and stuff and it was really awkward for me! I am getting close to going back, not sure what I should say if he asks this time, please help!

I agree with the others that it is really strange for a doctor to ask about your first ejaculation and talk about his experiences. I am going to assume that he was only trying to be helpful and was just trying to make sure you understood about masturbation and ejaculation so that if you had any questions you would ask him since he is a doctor. You have nothing to loose by being honest, but if the doctor starts asking a lot of questions about your sexuality or seems to be a little too interested in how you masturbate, then I would not go into too much detail. However, if the doctor just wants to make sure you understand about the changes happening to you and just wants to help you, then there is no problem. After all, a lot of guys do not get detailed explanations from their parents about what's happening to them when they go through puberty, and many guys have to rely on their doctors for advice and help with the changes.

[bentheplayer]

As what the others said, the doctor might be trying to discuss puberty with you and trying to make it relatable but if you don't feel comfortable you can always tell him so. The doc should get the hint. Not all physicians have good communication skills and sensitive stuff like puberty and masturbation doesn't make things any easier for him.

[garfield221]

just be honest to a doctor

[Zachary G]

Yeah, it is kind of odd for him to ask you a question like that, but not out of place. If the topic comes up again, just be honest with him about things and make sure that you ask plenty of questions in return.

[DocMcLovins]

I know this is going to sound like the plot of a porno but I promise this is a real problem. Every year I go to the doctor for a checkup, and last year when I was there, at the part where he was checking my balls he was like "so have you masturbated to your first ejaculation?" And I kind of freaked out and just lied so I was like "I don't think so" and then he was like "really, I remember when I was your age.." and he told me like a short story on when he first came and like how you masturbate and stuff and it was really awkward for me! I am getting close to going back, not sure what I should say if he asks this time, please help!

Sounds less like a porno than a creepy af pedo doctor!!! Like others said, don't make a habit of lying to your doctor. But idk whether u bust a nut or not is important to him. He should be asking stuff like do you get out of breath easy and stuff like that, and that stuff don't lie about! Do you see your doctor alone or do your parents go in with you? My mom goes in with me cuz my dad is not around and that's the embarrassing part for me. My doc hasn't asked stuff that bad but it's already bad enough!

[pconnor]

You should be honest and it is confidential.

[tyguy359]

i've never had a doctor ask me anything like that before

[NewLeafsFan]

First of all hes ur dr. Be honest.

[hairy balls]

Yea I have had docs ask me questions one even asked if I could how him how I masturbated in case I weaned doing it the best way to get enjoyment