Why can't I stop loving her ?

[Jocekral]

Hey, there is this girl who I love since 1st day of high school. We used to be close, we talked a lot etc. I love her since I first laid my eyes on her. Since then I think about her everyday.We were in the same class, 2 years later we went to other classes, she chose different category me different too. I still remember when I asked for a gum and she said here you go with her angelic voice. I also remember when we were alone in the bus for 1 hour. I still remember when I used to sit beside her in class and tease her. I still remember the most beautiful smile in the world... I never made a $$$$ing move and I think that mistake will haunt me for the rest of my life. 1 and a half year ago she got boyfriend, that's when i finally had the guts to tell her how I feel, I told her that I love her and she said I really hope you find someone. Since then we don't talk and I know there is no chance for us to be together, that ship sailed. I really want to stop loving her but at the same time I can't imagine how my life would be if I don't love her. It is a way of life for me to lover her... I want to stop loving her but at the same time I don't...

[Bontigo Papi .]

Then don't stop . Give her the attention that you used to give her . Tell her that you want what you had , the special friendship . Loving someone isn't just about getting into relationships , being in love is another thing . You just need to figure that out , but right now , the worst thing that can happen while you're trying to date her , is be distant , while she has a boyfriend .

[Just JT]

Exactly!!
You can't stop living someone just as much as you can't force yourself to love someone. Just like you can't choose your race or sexuality. It just is. And if you love her then pursue her. And let tha card fall as they may.

I believe that if she does not feel the same way, in time, you will feel the same way as her as you can't love someone who don't or can't love you back.

So take that in stride ok?

[ska8er]

Start meeting new people-get involved
with a club or a sport to get over the
feelings and maybe u will find someone
else to love-u got to move on. Its not
the end of the world.

[jamie_n5]

Well first loves can really hurt when they end and the other person has no interest or lost interest. You somehow have to get over it and go on. You will eventually find someone. Be patient and give it time.