Talking to my Parents

[sammyg7241]

don't know if this is the correct section, but anyway;

Today I was doing a self-exam of my testicles while taking a shower and I noticed something off and I have no clue what it is. I want to go see my doctor, but my parents always make all of my doctor appointments. I don't really know how to talk ask them to make an appointment for me because I know they're going to ask why (because my pediatrician's office does when you make an appointment), and I feel really awkward about this, because I'm very self conscious. Any advice?

[awesomeness14]

Don't be afraid to ask. It is better to know that your body is in good health than have severe problems later on.

[Bontigo Papi .]

It's better if you do because I'm sure you would want your body in good health . don't be afraid to ask .

[zzzzzzzzzz]

If it's easier, write it down and hand them the bit of paper. Please talk with them. I'd rather be checked now and find nothing, as the feeling of relief will be good, rather than 6 months when it could be more serious

[NZPerson]

The people at the doctors office handle this stuff every day that your embarresment to talking to them will be insignificant compared to the other stuff. With ur parents maybe u can make another excuse to see the docotr and be like "im 15 i think its time i start going alone and taking control of my health"

[Cassius16]

Get it checked out, don't be afraid even though there might be initial embarrasment

[KBar33]

I know hat it's easier said than done, but you have to get over it man. You don't want to screw up there body you have. I know exactly what you are going through man, once when I was 15 I accidentally cut my foreskin. I was very insecure about my body, and especially about my penis. However, you health is the foremost concern on your parents mind. They will always peioeitize your well-being and physical wellness over anything. They are there to help you. I got over it, and you can too man, it just takes a little bit of guts but you are more than capable of doing it.

[hairy balls]

why not phone your dr and make an appointment yourself , if the reception ask what for just its personal and you need to see your dr asap , then tell and show him the problem they see this every day and what you discuss with him is private and will not leave his office without your permission .

[loki2000]

Nothing to be shy about ..Really ..if you think some things wrong down there let your parents know.. Just pick the parent that your the most comfortable talking about that stuff..just say your having pain down in your private area.. They will be fine with that..know ones going to make fun of you ! Please tell them...you need to have that checked out..Don`t want things to get worse if you dont let them know !

[Just JT]

Bro look, this is really important ok?
It's most likely notning, I mean statistacly your probably fine, but it could also be a bunch of different things that may need medical attention. And earlier the better, early intervention is huge IF it's serious

You might feel embarrassed, but tbh there's nothing to be that way about it. I had one about a year ago, and had to have or checked out by my dr. It ended up being nothing, but he also said imwas very smart and brace to step up and say something about it. Most guys our age are probably embarrassed about it

Just suck it up and talk to mom or dad. And let them take it from there if you want

Shit, just show them this thread and tell them you got the same problem. Don't even need to say it's you.

Please get this checked out. Your more mature and grown up to face it a d deal with it than ignore it.....

Let us know how you make out and know. we're all here for you ok?

[tom20012016]

A friedn had the same problem as you and he finally told his parents and they diagnosed him with testicular cancer so U SHOULD TELL UR PARENTS maybe its a bit embarrasing but its important for ur health

[pjones]

it's great you examine your testicles, we all should. and this could be serious so either call and make your own appointment or pull your dad aside and tell him you need to because you think you found something wrong "down there"

[Just JT]

A friedn had the same problem as you and he finally told his parents and they diagnosed him with testicular cancer so U SHOULD TELL UR PARENTS maybe its a bit embarrasing but its important for ur health

it's great you examine your testicles, we all should. and this could be serious so either call and make your own appointment or pull your dad aside and tell him you need to because you think you found something wrong "down there"

^^ this
I was trying to sugar coat a little
But do this bro, it's important, do not be embarrassed, it could mean the difference of cancer or life

[jamie_n5]

Don't feel embarrassed or shy about that man. If you feel something isn't right you need to see your doctor. Your parents will fully understand. I had a friend that at 16 got testicular cancer and lost one testicle so it's nothing to fool with if you feel something is wrong by all means get it checked out.

[Harrier]

I had an infection that doubled the size of one of my balls. I waited 2 days in hopes that it would just go away cuz i was like you too embarrassed to say anything. Eventually I had tell my mom (my dad was away for the week). I was scared. It's your health, eventually you won't care and you will do what you have to do. It's sorta self preservation. My mom was even in the room when I showed the nurses and doctor my junk. Atm I couldn't have cared less. Cuz i thought I was dying. Once i was told it would go away after a couple days of taking pills I was sorta embarrassed again but she couldn't have been cooler. She's a mom and cares only about my health. Thankfully it wasn't a huge deal but it could've been. Bite the bullet and tell your rents.

[pconnor]

Nothing to be embarassed about. Let your dad know.

[jake1214]

I don't think you should feel too embarrassed about this since it's about your health.

[NewLeafsFan]

I recently had an awkward conversation with my parents. I had to go to the dr about tight foreskin. It took months before I finally had that conversation with them. I finally did and I felt a lot better after. Just go up to one of ur parents and blurt out, "I need to see the doctor because I have a bump on my balls."

A friend of mine found a bump on their testicle. They went to see their dr and it turned out to be an epydidimal sist. (Spelling is probably wrong). Which is a noncancerous bump that can only cause problems if it gets big enough to grt in the way which is rare.

[army martin]

You have two choices here. Tell them the truth which is probably the best option, it might be a little awkward but they will just want to make sure you are healthy. If I was you I would talk to my dad. If you really don't think you can talk to them then you're going to have to make something up.

[ThekidErik]

definitely tell your parents it's important to have good health

[jordand]

You should google it first. Theres apart of the balls that feel like atumor but itsnot

[ilc.69]

You're parents are the closest people you'll ever have. You should tell them and trust them

[tyguy359]

i don't think they would care, besides you could just go ask to see a regular doctor. tell your parents its something else, then just tell the doctor when you get there

[countryplowboy]

I think we are very lucky. We have the coolest parents.we can talk to them about anything without embarassment. My brother and I ask our dad and our sisters ask our mom. We're totally cool with each other

[tyrickd]

if ur uncomfortable talk to ur dad guy to guy i feel that could make it easier