Is My Girlfriend Right For Me?

[Ryuun]

Hey VR, so I have a question, Is my Girlfriend right for me?
Ok so I do have a really good Girlfriend and at a certain level we do connect.
Recently I have moved back to my home town with this girl and I have missed going out with my friends and hanging out with them so much, So since I have come back thats what I have been doing, Hanging out with them, But my GF doesn't like going out and meeting people too much. When I was living with her in her city I didn't have friends for a while so it was never a problem, But now it is and its very dividing.

Basically, I'm very social and she is not but I do love her, but I do like going out and being a social butterfly and she is the opposite, she doesnt like going out, she doesn't want to meet my friends and she doesn't even want to try.
I am trying my hardest to make ends meet and she is making it so difficult. Like honestly there is only so much I can do, If she doesn't want to meet half way then what? Like its just so so hard atm. I am trying to get my life on track and she isn't making it easy for me.

I would like to hear some opinions on this. Please and Thank you

[Bontigo Papi .]

You need to sit down and have a serious conversation with her . maybe there's something she isn't telling you. maybe she doesn't enjoy your friends' company .

[AdamDS]

Perhaps she's just shy or maybe she has anxiety. I have a friend who was dumped because she was very quiet and had social anxiety whilst her boyfriend was the complete opposite. She was devastated. If she has social anxiety she might just need some extra help to cope with it.

[ClaraWho]

Sounds like you don't know the real reason behind her decisions. You really need to have a serious conversation about this asap, like others here have said. There must be a reason she doesn't want to go out of the house.

~ Clara

[Uniquemind]

There's something else going on here.

But this dynamic can't continue in a future married relationship.

So even if the relationship continues it could rear it's head in other avenues of life.

[Phosphene]

You definitely need to talk to her about her actions and how they're making you feel. Be honest with her, be gentle about it and ask her if there's any way you can help her. You can't continue like this forever; sometimes compromises need to be made to keep both people in a relationship happy. If everything revolves around one person, that won't happen.