Do I turn him on too much?..

[CollectorsItem]

So I recently got a bf and i feel like everytime we talk he gets a boner because of me.. I mean he tells me to call him daddy and when i do he gets a boner. Or if he says lets fight (playingly) and i say square up he gets a boner. Or if I'm venting and I'm mad at him and we start bickering and it ends up ok he GETS A BONER. And every time her gets a boner he has to go for like 2 minutes to cum.. Does it sound like this is on purpose? I mean sometimes i do it on purpose like teasing him but most of the time its not my fault? HELP!:confused::confused:

[Collinsworthington]

Um. He's probably just hella horny, and right in the middle of puberty. But, that would be annoying, just sit him down and tll him that if he wants to go all the time he needs to last longer so that you can be pleasured as well.

[jamie_n5]

Well it's normal for teenagers to be horny. Does he masturbate in front of you then or do you have sex when this happens? If it is too much for you I would just tell him to stop doing it or go into the bathroom if you have to do that. You got to let him know that you don't like him doing that unless you want to also.

[CollectorsItem]

Well it's normal for teenagers to be horny. Does he masturbate in front of you then or do you have sex when this happens? If it is too much for you I would just tell him to stop doing it or go into the bathroom if you have to do that. You got to let him know that you don't like him doing that unless you want to also.

I mean this is when we are texting so will hang up the call but i will be having sex with him next week so i hope he can hold on long enough to pleasure me :/ But thank you ;)

Um. He's probably just hella horny, and right in the middle of puberty. But, that would be annoying, just sit him down and tll him that if he wants to go all the time he needs to last longer so that you can be pleasured as well.

Thank you that was pretty helpful :)

[Anniebanannie]

The boners are his problem, but he shouldn't stop talking to you because of it. I can see how it could get annoying for you.

[ClaraWho]

Wait so you aren't at the stage of even masturbating in front of each other, you complain when you try to have normal conversations or hang out it turns sexual - but you are going to have SEX with him next WEEK?!

How long have you been dating?

He sounds very immature if the slightest hint of anything even 1% sexual makes him erect. And no offence to you, but guys like that are turned on by literally ANYTHING. I'm talking 60 yr old women bending over to a bumpy bus ride. I wouldn't rush into anything, you both sound quite young and I do feel you'd regret it when you are older.

Wait a while, start with less than intercourse and build up over months. Do you really want to give yourself to a overly hormonal teenage boy when the relationship may only last a few more weeks, and become entirely sex based? Or do you want a more meaningful connection based on more than you being a girl and happening to have the right body parts to get him off?

Just something to think about.

~ Clara

[Bontigo Papi .]

Yeah , he's just one horny mf . Believe me , he's not gonna last long when you do have sex so just wait awhile because the both of you seem young .

[Hufflepufflife]

Yeah, I may rethink the having sex next week idea.

[ClaraWho]

Just to add to the consensus of not having sex, and to iterate my point even clearer.

If you don't become sexual with him, instead choosing to wait a month/months and start slow, then it will really test if he is just after sex. Relationships are about mental and emotional closeness more so than physical, if that isn't there or he doesn't stick around without sex - he was only interested in using you to get off due to overactive hormones. And that is always a short-term fix.

~ Clara

[BryGuy]

Sounds like he is just getting used to girls so he gets excited easily

[CollectorsItem]

You all helped so much and sadly i broke up with him not long after.. This really did help tho with future relationships i will surely hang on to this.
You all are the best!